need advice for doing a threesome.....

To be honest I do not really know or hang with any providers. Bad experience when I first got into the business and so I do not have much trust. I'm not really feeling the whole swingers club. I'm not biso I'm one of those women that need a lil drinks to ease the situation. I really don't think imma go the provider route. I spoke with him a bit leaving out the provider part and I think he wants to be apart of the process of picking.

I think that since he obviously likes you, then getting a provider with a body type like yours would be ideal, so I would nominate Tiffany Texas, http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=52666 , and I hear she is a partier!

Well weird I've got a best friend that I invited on a trip to come down to Dallas just so he and i could feel out the situation. Found out yesterday that she's not into threesomes and then told me she doesn't like sharing her man lol. I'm thinking it's not like I'm asking a female to join my relationship, just have some fun. Imma have to figure out a different surprise but I've got time. He's not back in Dallas until the 21!

I recommend you not be too public (here in ECCIE) about your relationship, what your planning, who, how, etc.

I think you already have provided too much information.

Just my 2 cents.

That IS weird.......she strikes me as someone who would be in to doing a 3some, but obviously not, I was thinking maybe this lady, http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=77285 but she will not be back in big D till this summer. SO how about this provider, http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=68631 , I have not seen her (yet), but reading her reviews, she sounds like she would be a great time. Just trying to offer some suggestions.

Well that is your two cents. Personally I feel I expressed what I needed to get advice or opinions. I never said it's a done deal and I'm selecting someone from here. If your not going to give advice about the topic instead of worrying about what I tell people, then stay off my thread. That is my two cents....

I appreciate all the suggestions and pm I've received!!! And bigdog....who are you talking about you figured she'd be into threesomes? My best friend is not in the biz and doesn't live anywhere close to Texas lol

You might want to reconsider the pay-for-play option. Involving friends can invite a lot of drama.

Pick a nice gal. Reputable gals don't want to fuck up their reputations by being indiscreet even with another pay-for-play gal.

Good luck and let us know how it goes! And don't forget to get pictures! ............. I'm KIDDING!

Thanks hun....when we decide to go that route I think him and I will decide together. I posted this thread because I was considering it as a surprise gift. It's a lot more difficult than what I thought. I think being open with him about the idea makes it more interesting and full of anticipation!!!! Thank you all for your advice.

I appreciate all the suggestions and pm I've received!!! And bigdog....who are you talking about you figured she'd be into threesomes? My best friend is not in the biz and doesn't live anywhere close to Texas lol Originally Posted by maria goddess

I thought you were looking for a provider for a 3 some with your Bf for Valentines per your opening post in this thread, so I suggested Tiffany Texas, and this is her profile: http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=52666 and you said she told you that she did not want to share, so that is why I said that was weird, but you were talking about your friend, we were talking about 2 different ladies!

Tiffany Texas was not the friend she was speaking of.

Oh no I was just looking for advice. If I want to select a provider I'll post in the request section. But thanks bigdog for the recommendation!

Suggestion, just take him to the 13th. Floor one Friday or Saturday night, Saturday nights are usually better and mingle with the guests. Chances are you'll find exactly what your looking for and no out of pocket expense for pay for play action. Dont be fooled if you run into another provider there..

Hun....maybe you should go back and read my first post. I said the threesome idea is my decision. I'm the one who brought it up. And also my boyfriend is an older guy( 35) that treats me like a queen. I would not trade him for any other guy which is why I think it's important to keep the relationship spicy so he doesn't stray lol.

I'm considering a threesome,not another girl to join my relationship lol Originally Posted by maria goddess

35 = "older guy". Well just kiss my elderly ass. That's as depressing a sentence as I've read in a month. I guess I'll just drag my early 50's butt back to the old nursing home and see if they've found my dentures yet.

Aww don't take it to heart. I'm 25 so my guy is 10 years older than me. I've dated older than him so age doesn't matter to me.