On Cuckolding!

I understand the direction of the thread (not what I expected) but I am puzzled by the terminology. A cuckold is a man with an unfaithful wife who has often been duped because of his naivete...he's unknowing and people are laughing behind his back. What does that have to do with this thread? Is there a new 21st century definition of which I am unaware??

There is a substantiated definition for cuckoldry as a fetish, which is what I believe many are referring to here. In this scenario, the husband is aware of his wife's infidelity and gets some kind of sexual pleasure from it.

I have cuckold for years and there is MANY norms

You brought up a good topic. No one suggested otherwise.

My post was not directed at you nor any one personally. It was a general comment and not a tongue lashing.

I stand by my comment. Because in truth too many men (not saying all) but too many men do too much talking about their fantasies and never follow through on them. Period! Even when they found a lady who *understands* and is willing/wanting/ready to help them explore their fantasies and has taken the time to arrange it. Especially the cuckold fantasy.
If you found the right parties who are willing & ready to help you explore & enjoy your fantasy. Then Just Do IT! Stop talking about it. Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

When I was "newer" with "this", I was always spending hours (seriously) speaking to men who were going to see me for an evening or an overnight and I can say that nearly 100% were full of crap. It's taken me several years to understand that so many like to live through a fantasy via a phone conversation and they just don't have the grit to follow through, or the funds or both. So speaking of fantasies over the phone is fine but with some pretty fair limitations.

With regard to your question of retirement and home ownership, although I liked your question overall, that is none of your business. It's well known that escorts generally fall short with regard to setting up retirement funds and long term investments. There are women who make the money, buy a house and have money in the bank. I still think of that group as a pretty small but savvy group. Most wish for that, but like most folks in the regular world ... bills and life gets in the way and it's harder to save.

I'm in that age bracket that you mentioned and I know women in their 50's and 60's who are still going strong. I am. But most of the women in this sphere get out of it at a relatively younger age.

Hope that helps.

Elisabeth

I understand the direction of the thread (not what I expected) but I am puzzled by the terminology. A cuckold is a man with an unfaithful wife who has often been duped because of his naivete...he's unknowing and people are laughing behind his back. What does that have to do with this thread? Is there a new 21st century definition of which I am unaware?? Originally Posted by jsparrow

You're thinking of the original and true definition of the term. The one that is used in such literature as "Canterbury Tales" and so many others like Shakespeare, etc.

The term has been somewhat bastardized as a fetish of sorts. That's what I have gleaned from it over the years. Where men wish to view their partners having sex with other men. Often, it's certain type of man. Say men with a huge cock or a man of a different color. Humiliation is a large part of it.

Shrug. That's my take on it anyway.

Thats why I'm here, to find the right parties. I'll heed your advice and understand that you didn't mean any thing personal, I'm thick skinned WM.

Hello Elizabeth W. I personally don't have the time to live out a fantasy via phone conversation and I really don't even like to text. This is something I've thought and have prepared for, timing is key in this situation as well as finding a partner who is willing. I enjoyed your response, I'm sure it is a small group of ladies indeed who can make enough hobbying to reach the finish line. On the home ownership and retirement thing I wasn't trying to dig into anyones personal business. I was trying to infer or to make women aware who read the thread, have they ever considered a situation like this? As a way of getting out where their able to find some type of balance or harmony and finishing. Of course one could also get into a traditional relationship. I really don't know what to say since your still going strong EW, other than to be safe. I do appreciate the ladies who hobby, very much so I would figure that most women in the spere do get out at an early age.

Thank you EW for the clarification. I'm an old f*** but I'm still learning (there's SO much to learn...ain't it fun???).

HUH? You lost me on this. I don't recall having indicated anything regarding that. Were you responding to someone else?

With regard to your question of retirement and home ownership, although I liked your question overall, that is none of your business. It's well known that escorts generally fall short with regard to setting up retirement funds and long term investments. There are women who make the money, buy a house and have money in the bank. I still think of that group as a pretty small but savvy group. Most wish for that, but like most folks in the regular world ... bills and life gets in the way and it's harder to save.

I'm in that age bracket that you mentioned and I know women in their 50's and 60's who are still going strong. I am. But most of the women in this sphere get out of it at a relatively younger age.

Hope that helps.

Elisabeth Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

HUH? You lost me on this. I don't recall having indicated anything regarding that. Were you responding to someone else? Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

Hey there!

Yes, I was. I just quoted you because I was agreeing with what you wrote. In the second part of my statement, I was responding to the last paragraph of the OP's topic. He asked about retirement and investment issues with escorts and ladies in sex work, overall.

That's all!

Elisabeth

Thank you EW for the clarification. I'm an old f*** but I'm still learning (there's SO much to learn...ain't it fun???). Originally Posted by jsparrow

It seems as if I'm always on an upward learning curve. And yes, there is so much to learn. And I would love to have a glimpse into the pool of knowledge that you possess.

Elisabeth

P.S. And yes. I was flirting. But just a tad.

cuckolding....

Ive been having a sexual relationship with a divorcee' Actually when we first started our 'relationship' she was married at the time and her then husband found out about the affair. He contacted me several times asking me ""wh are you having sex with my wife" and questions of that sort. Well , me and the wife kept our "relationship". Eventually she sued for a divorce and we've kept having intercourse and all through this time the 'ex-husband' has kept trying to 'have a relationship' with her and wants to "keep their friendship" eventhough we still have a very wild and adventurous sexual relationship. Would you all consider the 'ex-husband' a cuckold ?

Yes, I would consider that he is a cuckold Thighhighfreak in reference to the classical term of what jsparrow was inquiring about. Besides for wanting to put myself into such a situation I had something similar happen to me, however I was not married.

I can't describe how horrible the emotional pain was that I felt as I was talking to her over the phone for the last time, knowing that I had lost her. It was excrutiating, it hurt, it felt as if my heart was torn in two pieces, and was so distraught. A part of me was in disbelief and after a few minutes reality had sunk in. During those moments I had a feeling of euphoria sweep over my body and had an epiphany all at the same time! I knew why I had lost her and I wanted to try and reclaim her just like the wife's husband tried to. I wanted to make love to her and was denied.

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cuckolding....

Ive been having a sexual relationship with a divorcee' Actually when we first started our 'relationship' she was married at the time and her then husband found out about the affair. He contacted me several times asking me ""wh are you having sex with my wife" and questions of that sort. Well , me and the wife kept our "relationship". Eventually she sued for a divorce and we've kept having intercourse and all through this time the 'ex-husband' has kept trying to 'have a relationship' with her and wants to "keep their friendship" eventhough we still have a very wild and adventurous sexual relationship. Would you all consider the 'ex-husband' a cuckold ? Originally Posted by thighhighfreek

No, he really doesn't fit the description of a "Cuckold" A wife who steps out on her husband, whether he is aware of it or not is an Adultress, he would be defined as a "Poor Smuck" But in the case where he is aroused sexually by the fact that his wife is involved sexually with other men then he would be considered a "Cuckold" There are different degrees of "Cuckold" the common denominators are first the couple must be married, the husband must be able to permitt his wife to engage in extramarrital affairs and he must be aroused by it. He doesn't neccessarily have to watch or participate in it. Some extreme cuckolding scenarios that I've heard about is the husband actually brings men to his wife he often will watch and or participate. His participation is often feeble really. He'll often ready his wife for her encounter by performing oral sex on her while she degrades him by saying he's a useless limp dick looser things like that. By some "Cuckolding" is considered a lifestyle for the couple. I find it rather complexed and difficult to completely understand.

well if there are provider couples out there that are into this PM me please.