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Hey girl
I agree with the OP. If you pay for an hour, then you need to get an hour, and that is BCD time, not the small talk beforehand. The only reasons why a guy would not get his full time is if he was late, not letting the provider know or he left early voluntarily. Once a guy engages in BCD activities then wants to rest or chat, then go for round 2, the in between rounds time resting or chatting is on the hobbyist, not the provider.Dude that was so off topic. He wants someone to socialize with, didn't see him once ask if it could be "free" or OTC before paid BCD time.
If a provider is so worried about the extra 5 or 10 minutes it takes to grab a quick shower, engage in small talk beforehand that she has to count that towards his BCD time, then IMO, she does not enjoy what she does. I do not think a normal hobbyist wants a girlfriend for more than the hour he is with her, but he does wants his FULL BCD time, so that has nothing to do with RW dating or him being clingy.
Ladies, you set your own donation levels, so if your time is that valuable and you are so hard up or you despise what you do, then raise your rates to cover the extra few minutes, but don't short a guy on his BCD time. Originally Posted by davidfree986