Kissing in the Hibbying lifestyle

I think kissing to me is for intimacy for someone with LTR. That's just me. We are all different and we all change with time. I only hobby when not in relationship but that's right now. In few yrs I might still hobby if I am in relationship. I think we are all different and we want different things. i think lesson for me is to just be upfront with provider so chemistry doesn't get thrown off.

I am not talking about making out or what not. I have not ventured into it. Who knows time will change. At this point when hobbying I am into very sloppy BBBJ porn style, CIM and FBSM and CFS at times. The reason I asked cause in my most recent girl I met seemed bit disrespected when I told her I don't kiss and she said OK but her body language was not OK. Good idea in discussing this first hand.

I like to kiss, but I normally don't like a hello kiss. I like to at least get acquainted first.

Odd?

For me LFK/DFK depends on the provider I'm seeing....some of them I want to kiss, others I don't.

Both will get paid so I'm sure either will be happy

I find I usually don't miss bbbj if it doesn't happen in a session. DFK, on the other hand, is damn near a must have.

It is a critical item for me. Reading reviews or asking the lady beforehand is a successful method I have found to know that I have chosen someone with a similar point of view.

WALDT but that's what I like best !

I doubt providers will kick you out or hold you down/tie you up so they can rape kiss you. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Is there an upcharge for that?

I've found a session's chemistry is off for me if there's a weird vibe about kissing or if there is no kissing. Because then I really do feel like I'm just a hole to fuck.

I know I'm just thinking that in my head - but hey, I'm a hooker on a hooker board. I know what my job is. But you guys want the IOP, so do I. I enjoy my job for a reason, whether it's GFE or PSE.

So, for me, I prefer a client that kisses. He can spank my ass, pull my hair, choke me (lightly please), and call me a dirty whore while he has me in a pile driver, but before he does that he needs to kiss me before he spits on my face.

At some point - I need kissing to be involved. It's passionate and makes it more "real" vs "i'm just here to pay you and fuck a couple of holes, goodbye".

I don't know if I'm explaining it right or not. Maybe someone will understand what the fuck I'm trying to say.

So, for me, I prefer a client that kisses. He can spank my ass, pull my hair, choke me (lightly please), and call me a dirty whore while he has me in a pile driver, but before he does that he needs to kiss me before he spits on my face. Originally Posted by tntangie

Oh, my. I need to be alone for a few minutes.

At some point - I need kissing to be involved. It's passionate and makes it more "real" vs "i'm just here to pay you and fuck a couple of holes, goodbye".

I don't know if I'm explaining it right or not. Maybe someone will understand what the fuck I'm trying to say.

Ya done good enough for me. I understand everything except the spitting part.

I've found a session's chemistry is off for me if there's a weird vibe about kissing or if there is no kissing. Because then I really do feel like I'm just a hole to fuck.

I know I'm just thinking that in my head - but hey, I'm a hooker on a hooker board. I know what my job is. But you guys want the IOP, so do I. I enjoy my job for a reason, whether it's GFE or PSE.

So, for me, I prefer a client that kisses. He can spank my ass, pull my hair, choke me (lightly please), and call me a dirty whore while he has me in a pile driver, but before he does that he needs to kiss me before he spits on my face.

At some point - I need kissing to be involved. It's passionate and makes it more "real" vs "i'm just here to pay you and fuck a couple of holes, goodbye".

I don't know if I'm explaining it right or not. Maybe someone will understand what the fuck I'm trying to say. Originally Posted by tntangie

I think you explained it perfectly.

Oh, my. I need to be alone for a few minutes.

Ya done good enough for me. I understand everything except the spitting part. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

It's a part of the whole PSE, being a dirty whore, thing...

You made me laugh.

Well said

I think I really want to see TNTangie now.....

I find I usually don't miss bbbj if it doesn't happen in a session. DFK, on the other hand, is damn near a must have. Originally Posted by TinMan

I'm kinda with TinMan on this one...I'll give up the BBBJ long before the DFK...

Amen Samantha! For the record I never had a problem with kissing you!

It's very simple. If you don't like to kiss, just don't. I doubt providers will kick you out or hold you down/tie you up so they can rape kiss you. Originally Posted by samantha thom

I don't kiss in hobby, and I don't DATY in hobby. Thats just me, I'm just not into it. Real world, different story. I'm a kissin and pussy eating mo fo. It has nothing to do with thinking it's more intimate or anything like that. I just can't get the thought out of my head that some other dude might have just busted a nut in this chicks mouth 30 minutes before I got here and I damn sure aint into snowballing. Or fuck she might have just done a stripper slide and now I'm licking off the dick residue of some other horny bastard.

Maybe some day when I get a little older I might go after the kissing and cuddling and dining at the Y, but right now I save that for my real world encounters with the chicks I know personally. In hobby I just want CFS, porn style BBBJ's, and CIM.

And I have never felt like a lady was disappointed because I didn't shove my tongue in her mouth or spread her legs open and start licking the honey out of her pot. It has always felt like a non issue to me. Originally Posted by threepeckeredbillygoat

What he said...Just not my thing. And I don't think that's an issue with most providers. I mean, damn, it's not charity. You're paying for the session. So if you don't want to kiss, why should you?