do providers share preformance info

Honey Rose...you are such a classy lady!!!
Cheers!

What ladies might tell others in person is different than what they'll share in a reference.

I don't socialize enough to hear any of that stuff.


I've personally never been told about a gentleman's skills or performance. The closest to that has been the occassional reference who will say "Have Magnums" or "Have smaller condoms on hand," but even those comments are extremely rare.

I've never said anything like that to a lady I'm giving a ref to.

Generally a lady only wants to know if he arrived on time, paid without issue, respected my boundaries, etc.

One lady in (will leave out city) who hobbies for a different set of reasons than most asked if I would genuinely be excited by the idea of seeing him again. I thought that was an awesome way for her to figure out if she wanted to be with him. Originally Posted by HoneyRose

+1 & I want to know if the gentleman is an all around good guy!

Honey Rose...you are such a classy lady!!!
Cheers! Originally Posted by italian1

Honey Class Rose

I'm sure that they talk about cleanliness, reliability, politeness, and, if I don't miss my guess, whether we are easy to make cum. I'll bet the easier the better for most. Let's be realistic. sayeth:

Short and to the point. That should move me up to the "A" list.

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that if a provider cared much about how good her clients were in the sack and how well hung he was, there would be a sliding scale for discounts by the inch for talented guys. Originally Posted by npita

That limb will break in the wind.

Seriously think about it. . .

If you get $250.00 per hour and one client can ring your bells and blow your whistles better than another client, guess who you are going to pick?

That does not mean you are going to only charge him $150.00.

You are going to earn your money just the same, you just might enjoy your work a bit more. This happens in other vocations too.

With a few exceptions, the personal info providers share is not about schlong size or how fantastic your abilities in bed are. They share things that are more pertinent to their job. The better they know the provider they are talking with, the more info they get.

Their job is to get you in and out with the least work possible. So if a gal knows how to get you to ring your bell faster, then she will probably share it. If she likes the other provider she will warn her what to expect.

examples:
" He loves Daty... I let him spend half the time on foreplay and he pops in only 5 minutes of penetration and then he is done..."

"usually not a problem, but check for the condom during doggie. I thought he was trying to slip it off last time."

"he is a teddy bear and can latch on to you, otherwise a great guy. Just so you are not surprised.. he does have cock the size my thumb."

"yeah, I would see him again. I might have to drink a little before hand. We were doing mish on the side of the bead and he lifted up is belly to get access and he just laid all that fat right on top of my belly. It was cold and sweaty... eeewwwww."



The guys who do not have a life (like me), have overhead reference and appointment calls. The examples above are real excerpts I have actually heard.

I am sure there are plenty of people who know what kind of session I am and how tiny my cock really is.

I just figured it wouldn't hurt to tell it like it is. For the most part, most girls are discrete and only tell what is needed for the girls safety and your enjoyment.

What I say in my reference depends on who I am giving the reference to. I know it's probably biased and lop sided or whatever but I give some ladies more information than I give others-and a lot of that depends on whether or not she has been nice to me or has been a bitch lol.

When I am getting information, I would like to know that information. It helps me plan out the date. If he has a favorite color, I'd like to wear it. If he has a particular activity he does not enjoy, I want to know so that I can avoid it. I want to know what size hats he requires, so I can already have it ready.

I also know what a lady thinks is "good in bed" differs as much as the lady herself. What works for one may not work for another. But if there are any "oddities" I want to know in advance so I'm not taken by surprise.

Now, if a guy had exceptional skills with me, you best believe I'm going to brag about it to the lady who is asking about him! I thought men liked their egos stroked?

Wow...this turned into a good thread. First, thank God providers do not do reviews on us that hobby. That would fall under the topic "be carefull what you ask for".

Second, it is fair for a provider to ask gentleman or rude type questions? Clean and appearance questions? Size for some is reasonable...for one of the boards complaints from hobbiest is that she complained about my size. As a hobbiest I would rather some one turn me down then see me and complained if that were the case.

Third, I thought all providers have magnums available. Isn't that one of the line providers use to make us feel like kings. "Whoa, that looks like it will require a magnum".

Be safe...

That limb will break in the wind.

Seriously think about it. . .

If you get $250.00 per hour and one client can ring your bells and blow your whistles better than another client, guess who you are going to pick? Originally Posted by ANONONE

The one most likely to show up and pay $250.00? Or how about, the one most likely to tip? The one who shows up regularly? The one that's lowest maintenance? CPI's post is pretty definitive.

...I overheard one gal tell another that she needed to see that guy. Before that, at another social way back in 2003, I still remember one remarking on a client's handle with a dreamy voice when she pointed him out to one gal...made me feel like dog shit... Originally Posted by LazurusLong

I'm sorry that it made you feel bad, but I can't control what women say.

Nice anecdotes, CPI. I've known a sweet hooker or two myself and that's exactly the kind of stuff they say. Not cruel by any means -- but they are girls and girls do talk.

The one most likely to show up and pay $250.00? Or how about, the one most likely to tip? The one who shows up regularly? The one that's lowest maintenance? CPI's post is pretty definitive. Originally Posted by npita

. . .and those things being equal, she is still going to pick the one that rings her bell and toots her horn better if she has to choose.

Of course, the other possibility is that she keeps that shit to herself.

If I were a provider, had a solid client that paid on time, was pleasant in all the ways gents are expected to be in the hobby, AND he can get me off and my purse is plump after the date. . .I am probably keeping that sugar daddy to myself.



This discussion has been going on for decades. . .

The white envelope is the white envelope. It gets you in the door and the session started.

Want a better session?

Avoid the pitfalls CPI mentions (old, cold, belly flop--LMAO), show a bit of kindness, have as much skill as is needed to make up for whatever anatomical shortcomings you might have and you will be surprised to find sometimes YMMV is a sliding scale in both directions.

I propose "performance based incentives" like....hmm, i dont know.
"fuck my brains out get a free session" hahaha

I'd worrrrrkkkk!

Rummerpaul,

That would be called a "Male Escort"

Nope i do not share "performance" info, the gent could have a bad day with me, and be the king with the next. Or he could have rocked my world, and may have an off day with the next.

Its simple with me, good guy, sweet guy, douchebag, asshole, talkative, very quiet, on-time, flaky. Some girls i tell a bit more, especially if i have met her, some girls well nope, some of the ladies talk too much, its best to give out basics and keep moving.

........Sorry guys, but some ladies just can't take a huge penis! Originally Posted by mikahranae

So THAT'S why all the ladies are so happy to see me!