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I switched to GEICO Originally Posted by Souper

LOL

I’ve had pretty good experiences overall, I’d say 95% of the time. The other 5% is from not enough due diligence and research on my part.

If you’re not having fun, then you should stop and evaluate what you’re doing this for. The rates are the rates, you either pay or go without. (I assume) You don’t go to a BMW dealer and ask why a 5 series is more than a Ford Fusion. You don’t ask the Ritz Carlton why a room isn’t the same cost as a Motel 6. And so on. It’s up to you to make sure you get the best experience possible.

I don’t advocate getting ripped off but you can’t take it with you and we’re all going to end up the same way.

Sounds like you’re picking the wrong ladies imo OP

This started as a drunk post but it wasnt random. I was sitting down to write reviews for June and as I started going back over the experiences the attitude was the common theme I noticed. I got catfished (older pics) but felt obligated to stay, 4 amp visits 2 out of 4 were good and the bad ones were from the really pretty girls with fucked up attitudes, sugar baby was fun the first couple of meetings and then she lost her mind asking for shit like to borrow my car to go out of state with another guy (no home training), and even my old friend the walker looking offended when I insisted on cbj (they know they live life in the express lane). That's why i made the distinction between paying for an orgasm versus paying for an experience. From $40-$1000 your price is your business and what I'm willing to pay is mine, like I said the dollars exchanged isn't the real issue, it's the attitude after the exchange. Did we both feel respected and appreciated for the transaction of doing business together or did someone feel owed something from the other or feel a sense of superiority. That's what the venting was for. In my own personal experience for the month of June out of the 13 encounters that I had, only 5 of them were truly enjoyable. Originally Posted by thewoodthatcould

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Well if you can't do appropriate research and read reviews, and contact the lady and see how she responds; and make an informed choice, that may show a lack of intelligence on your part, or mayb?e just a lack of how to choose a companion. However you are choosing, you're obviously not doing a good job. So choose another method of picking a provider. And stick to Eccie or P411. I'll be waiting for those 13 encounter reports. But you've been a member since 2016? And really? A girl on the street?

I would think that AMPs are 50/50 anyway, unless you know who to request.

But the well known ladies on Eccie who have NEVER gotten a bad review and even the well known hobbyists who review them say the pics are current and the service is excellent, are NOT likely to let you down! Were you only going for the brand new Welcome Wagon girls? If so then you deserve what you got. You CANNOT rely on those frequent reviewers who only write about the young, new girls. They talk these poor new girls in giving them discounts or freebies in exchange for an incredibly over the top review. So anyone who's review title is in all caps and ALWAYS has pics and or video on OH2 is not to be trusted of course, if they usually see new girls. And the reviews are just so very, very good. Too good to be true. So ignore the serial reviewers.

Instead, look at ladies over 30-35 yrs of age, who consistently get excellent reviews from well respected hobbyists who have been around for years, and don't just shop in the juniors' department for companionship. There's even a thread going around about the best providers 35 Plus and one about the best providers over 40. If you are looking for a lady who knows how to please a gentleman and who actually, truly, enjoys her work, it's going to be a seasoned lady who is known to give fantastic service, who treats each man as an individual and truly wants him to have an amazing time with her. She enjoys it or she wouldn't still be. She's GOOD, or she wouldn't still be here. After many no reviews, providers either shape up or ship out.

If your average for good appointments is 5 out of 13, WTF are YOU doing wrong?! Look at yourself. It's not hard to pick an amazing provider who treats you like you are the only man that matters. Because during that hour you two are together, YOU ARE THE ONLY MAN THAT MATTERS. Something is definatley wrong with your judgement. Did you PM and email, text and call these ladies? Get to know them just a bit? NOT excessively, we hate chronic texters and callers who go on and on without booking. But once or twice before you pull the trigger. RESEARCH FIRST, before even contacting them. Her posts on this board will tell you a lot.

READ REVIEWS. REALLY read her bio page and her ads! It's easy to tell when a manager is posting versus a woman. So if her way of posting is consistent, it's probably a real provider. But call her, (after you PM her and give your screening info). Get a feel for her voice. If she sounds bored, or over enthusiastic, stay away. If she doesn't screen, stay away. If her reviews are not great, or say YMMV anywhere, stay away. If her only reviews are from the top 5 reviewers of middle aged men who only see girls 18-25, stay away.

Do a search and read her posts from the last few months. If she sounds BSC in her posts, stay away. If she's a drama queen in her posts stay away. If her posts are fun, funny, sexy and also contain well thought out advice and suggestions for other members, then put her on your TDL.

If you're choosing your partners on another site besides P411 or Eccie, well then you're screwed. Not in the good way. All the lesser sites are just new Backpages. And yet all the men who keep going to RR and Listcrawler and Yesbackpage, etc., still come back to Eccie to write reviews and post in CoEd. I think Eccie should be reserved for Eccie, not every site online. But that's just me. I did run across one lady's review from RR last week, who apparently changes her name every month, and has reviews under several names, all bad. But none of the genius hobbyists realized her number had not changed nor had her pics. Same woman. But her reviews weren't linked, because each guy thought he was the first to review her.

Do a Google search of her phone number and name. It's easy. Better yet, stick to Eccie and P411. P411 is accepting new clients now. If you can afford 99 bucks. Sounds like you wasted more than that. And you can't even do research about a girl on the street.

You have been a member since 2016, and ONLY have 41 posts??!!? And NO REVIEWS. Write one for each of your 13 experiences please. Then you'll have PA and can research more thoroughly next time.
You're not even actively participating in the hobby. How can you come on here and berate the providers!!?? YOU CAN'T. It's definitely YOU that has the problem. YOU don't know how to pick a provider to get the service that you desire. And there are SO many that NO hobbyist has ever said a negative word about.

HOW DID YOU go about choosing your companions? Strictly on pics? On price? Location? You can certainly use those criteria but it's more important to choose a lady who like I mentioned before.
Over 30-35. NOT always, but many of the brand new young girls just think they have to be young and thin, or cheap or maybe they're managed. And if you choose to go start hobbying NOW, at least learn how to do it, ok?

And WHERE do you get your stats that providers see two clients a day 5 days a week!? I certainly never have. Maybe 3-5 a week. But each lady is different. Some see 4-6 men a day. If she frequently has several reviews written in the same day, remember that many men don't write reviews, so chances could indicate that she's high volume. Or not. Research.

But DO NOT put all providers in that group that you saw. AND YOU STILL HAVEN'T WRITTEN ONE REVIEW! Not ONE! I think you most certainly need to write about these gems that you saw. Expose the 8 bad providers and praise the 5 good ones please. Or most people will think you're lying. I mean what grown man can't pick any better than that? Can you read a providers' info well or what?

So YOU get over YOURSELF! And don't complain about the price of companionship. If you can't afford it, then don't see companions.

Ginger took the claws out for that post. OP, you can't go on a rant and NOT have any reviews wrote. Maybe you should take up stamp collecting

Ginger took the claws out for that post. Originally Posted by mrredcat43

You actually read all of that long winded shit?

You're a better man than me. I made it two sentences.

Start a college for Hookers.

If u don't like the providers or the cost, remember that's why the Good Lord gave men a right & left hand and porn videos!

GingerKatt ..Spot On girlfriend !!

Most of us, men and women alike can get a partner for companionship with little financial exposure Originally Posted by thewoodthatcould

Do tell me the secret. For me, it's always been either and only money or marriage.

GingerKatt ..Spot On girlfriend !! Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

I almost died while reading it - LOL JK
BUT, GingerKatt is spot on. To her point, as a hobbiest, I research diligently and as a result I play well. I have a few reviews posted on here and none of them are BS. Out of all of my encounters I’ve only had two or three that didn’t meet my expectations, and I attribute that to good research leading me to connect with ladies who are generally good matches for me. Happy hobbying and good luck OP!

I'm sure that I'm largely to blame because I like fuckin young slutty spinners. A large number of the ladies on this board (30-40 with slightly above average builds and looks) are what I'm capable of dating irl. I like paying to see people that are outside of my scope of dating so the real problem is what is broken with me that I keep attracting a certain type of person that uses you and disrespects you. Could be birds of a feather. GingerKatt made some good points, some of it i disagree with, but overall thanks for making a thoughtful post and giving genuine feedback.

I'm sure that I'm largely to blame because I like fuckin young slutty spinners. A large number of the ladies on this board (30-40 with slightly above average builds and looks) are what I'm capable of dating irl. I like paying to see people that are outside of my scope of dating so the real problem is what is broken with me that I keep attracting a certain type of person that uses you and disrespects you. Could be birds of a feather. GingerKatt made some good points, some of it i disagree with, but overall thanks for making a thoughtful post and giving genuine feedback. Originally Posted by thewoodthatcould

Can’t knock you for what you like and prefer ....but there are likely some younger spinner women in the demographic you’re looking for that offer the experience you’re looking for .

Good luck finding what you like ...waldt

I have been doing this hobby for a while and have written plenty of reviews and have seen hundreds of providers. Even tho he says it is a drunk post, the OP has a point.

Most guys see providers based on paying for someone who under normal circumstances, would probably not give them the time of day. Research can and does help some, but the problem is, all you have to research is what is available. As we all know, there are embellished and fake reviews for different reasons, especially for new girls for baiting purposes and frequent posting providers who will go BSC if a guy posts an honest review of an average or worse time he had with her.

Any other research such as talking with the provider beforehand, counting on what is written in an ad and letting her know what you like in a session are also no guarantee of a great time. I have went the route of talking to providers, taking them out to eat beforehand and even giving them a blueprint of what would keep me coming back as a regular client, and that did not relate to a fantastic BCD session. Usually, I set my appointments in advance and on many occasions, get to chat with the provider off and on beforehand. Many are smart in keeping the facade up to the appointment time, but after I show up and they get the money, all the anticipation and groundwork laid prior to the BCD time was all for naught and I realized she was just saying what I wanted to hear. But, there are times due to unforeseen bullshit by me at the time of my appointment setting, in a few instances, the mask comes off so to speak, and the appointment is cancelled by one or both of us. I really appreciate that as it saves me time and money.

Then there are the providers who can either continue with the illusion until after my appointment with her is done and I am gone, or even better, actually enjoy what they do, and those are the providers who I have seen for BCD sessions more than just once and keep me coming back to see them. THAT is what I pay for and will continue to give my business to those providers. I have a few that I see on a semi-regular basis, but having to see the numbers I have seen to get to that point makes the issue the OP is stating very real.