Or maybe the three of us can get together! Originally Posted by GstopperThat could be a fun first!
Unless they gave an honest review that ended in a no for recommendation. Not a review blasting you or being mean but just a "we didn't match up well" review. You don't give references to those guys, right?
Ask me how I know. Originally Posted by watercooled82
Heres one for you ladies and guys.....I really hate to say this but i think this is bullshit.... You know how many times ive given girls ive seen as references and i think they have actually been contacted in the reference capacity maybe like twice........ I think its smart you girls ask for them and imply you need them but from experience seems like 95% of girls dont even contact them. Just sayin......
#1: Ladies: Who out there are REFERENCE FRIENDLY these days....
#2: Guys: Do you realize the importance of this and securing solid references if youve got them?
I have been around a little while....😛 Things have changed QUITE a bit. Back even just about 2-5 years ago...we had a very nice decent size circle going where we would help each other out...give a quick vouch for someone, and we knew who was around. There are now so many new and travelling providers ...that its hard to keep up....
And for the guys if when requesting an appointment with someone you have not seen before my suggestion would be to speak to your references before hand to ask if they're willing to give a reference and in your request to see somebody list your references if you do not have any be prepared to provide some screening information otherwise you're just wasting everybody's time. most of you know this.... some of you certainly do not so this is just in an attempt to cut down on the waste of time that happens in waiting yes we have to do our due diligence at least if you want to be safe.
all my best to you!!!
JM xo Originally Posted by Jacqueline May