Ladies!!! What are your thoughts on getting a drink with a hobbiest

I offer social/public dates

nothing like reading my mine

...kinda prefer LL's M.O.

Hangin' out at the Incall for a cocktail is the way to go. Originally Posted by DownForWhatever

Why are dudes answering I’m pretty sure I said ladies. If I wanted a guys opinion I would have asked myself. Originally Posted by Texas32

Then you probably should have ...

To all the guys on here I know it’s a coed and it is open to everybody to add a comment but let the ladies speak for themselves!! I’m asking them not you, if you have all the answers great no need to take it up the ass (no point intended) just let the ladies communicate with me/us and maybe just maybe you’ll learn something you thought you already knew. Ladies please excuse the dicks!!

If in public: I don't care because I'm watching the bartender pour anyway.

In his room: I don't let them leave and bring me back a drink or order one while I'm still on the way. We move as one unit lmaoo

If he gets a bottle: Has to be unopened and I'll still sip and watch him drink. Wait 30-45mins and see how he acts before chugging mine lol

I don't charge extra unless it goes over 30 mins then you can at least hook me up with an extra 50 but if we're drunk and chilling then I won't care. As long as you're not annoying and I have no other calls then we can chill but when I say I gotta go that means I GOTSTA GO

Well I'm not a dude, I'm a dirty old man, butt IMO...if you're established with a lady anything is doable. If she is comfortable w you n you don't gross her out, I'm pretty sure dude it's not something you would need to start a post for....IMO again

I think it’s a fair topic but to expect the lady to do it for free is probably only available to long time or frequent regulars. What I think is more relevant is whether many providers ( I know some do) have different rates for the social, such as drinks, dinner, etc...than they do for the time spent inside

If in public: I don't care because I'm watching the bartender pour anyway.

In his room: I don't let them leave and bring me back a drink or order one while I'm still on the way. We move as one unit lmaoo

If he gets a bottle: Has to be unopened and I'll still sip and watch him drink. Wait 30-45mins and see how he acts before chugging mine lol

I don't charge extra unless it goes over 30 mins then you can at least hook me up with an extra 50 but if we're drunk and chilling then I won't care. As long as you're not annoying and I have no other calls then we can chill but when I say I gotta go that means I GOTSTA GO Originally Posted by kushella

I start looking hot after 5 drinks fyi

I start looking hot after 5 drinks fyi Originally Posted by BLM69

Considering I only drink rumple minze, adios mfs, long islands and courvoisier; I won't need 5

I don’t mind having a drink —with a regular, consistent friend— before the appointment on occasion but....

Expecting me to hang out off the clock with you when this is what I do for money is.... not cool.

But I also wouldn’t stay and work late at my RW job without getting paid, and wouldn’t EVER expect anyone else to. And my boss would think that was crazy too.

Sometimes I like to be somewhere and live the “illusion” and just pay for the drinks. Originally Posted by Texas32

We are providing you the ability to have that illusion (fantasy)....
And i don’t know about other ladies, but I do have different (lower) rates for social events.

So if we comment, we’re stopping the ladies from commenting? And I don’t see anyone here being a dick about it. You’re a sensitive one aren’t you.

To all the guys on here I know it’s a coed and it is open to everybody to add a comment but let the ladies speak for themselves!! I’m asking them not you, if you have all the answers great no need to take it up the ass (no point intended) just let the ladies communicate with me/us and maybe just maybe you’ll learn something you thought you already knew. Ladies please excuse the dicks!! Originally Posted by Texas32

Smart girl.

If in public: I don't care because I'm watching the bartender pour anyway.

In his room: I don't let them leave and bring me back a drink or order one while I'm still on the way. We move as one unit lmaoo

If he gets a bottle: Has to be unopened and I'll still sip and watch him drink. Wait 30-45mins and see how he acts before chugging mine lol

I don't charge extra unless it goes over 30 mins then you can at least hook me up with an extra 50 but if we're drunk and chilling then I won't care. As long as you're not annoying and I have no other calls then we can chill but when I say I gotta go that means I GOTSTA GO Originally Posted by kushella

Some years ago there was a provider that I would occasionally have lunch with. We never had any sessions, we were just friendly on the site. Sometimes she would bring another provider with her to join us (that was how I met Bliss that one time). Although it can happen, I wouldn’t expect it. These ladies sell their time. They shouldn’t be expected to give it away for free to someone they don’t know.

Off topic, but damn you are hot.....

Anyway, being in salaried management I have to have drinks with people and pretend to like them without getting paid all the time, that’s just not fair LOL.

But at least it’s usually with a vendor so they’re buying mine!

Now if they would just utilize eccie a lot more of them would get my business lol.

I don’t mind having a drink —with a regular, consistent friend— before the appointment on occasion but....

Expecting me to hang out off the clock with you when this is what I do for money is.... not cool.

But I also wouldn’t stay and work late at my RW job without getting paid, and wouldn’t EVER expect anyone else to. And my boss would think that was crazy too.


We are providing you the ability to have that illusion (fantasy)....
And i don’t know about other ladies, but I do have different (lower) rates for social events. Originally Posted by LuciaConte

I know a few that I’ve been with a while that I’m sure would have a quick drink with me first without charging if I asked. But I don’t drink beforehand because I don’t want to chance junior getting lazy on me lol.

That said if I ever do decide to do that, I wouldn’t expect it to be free, and if they didn’t charge I’d give them an extra tip for their time.

Any dudes who don’t like that, that’s just tough. They’re working and that’s just called being polite. It’s a service industry and that’s how it’s supposed to work.

Some years ago there was a provider that I would occasionally have lunch with. We never had any sessions, we were just friendly on the site. Sometimes she would bring another provider with her to join us (that was how I met Bliss that one time). Although it can happen, I wouldn’t expect it. These ladies sell their time. They shouldn’t be expected to give it away for free to someone they don’t know. Originally Posted by Hellion437