Provider "sighting" on a "match.com"

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Ms. Athena's Avatar
I am also on several dating and swinger site and have been for far longer then I have been a provider and on this site. I rarely get to have a civi date any more but when I do it with they type of man I choose to see..........
I will personally say I am on dating sites. I am looking for a civilian man. I would never use the other site for business purposes (advertising, fishing etc) I am a FBSM provider. I'm not ashamed of it. You are kind of calling the kettle black. You as well are on both, so are you either really looking for a relationship or a free fu**? Originally Posted by SensualSpecialist
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dearhunter's Avatar
I would consider a dating site part of her civilian life, and not intrude.
I'm on POF and a few other sites. I see girls that I know from here all the time. You're acting that just because a woman has chosen this as her profession that she isn't looking for more. Hell I've had a few girls get to know me and we hang out outside of the hobby. It has nothing to do with getting anything for free but having a friend (or more) that you don't have to hide things from.
Sarunga's Avatar
I would consider a dating site part of her civilian life, and not intrude. Originally Posted by dearhunter
Very true.
blowpop's Avatar
Why is this surprising? Providers have lives outside of the hobby, just as most hobbyists do. And their work can make relationships a challenge.

If you do decide to contact her on the dating site, you've got to decide whether or not you want to bring up the hobby. I see pros and cons to either choice.
Why is this surprising? Providers have lives outside of the hobby, just as most hobbyists do. And their work can make relationships a challenge.

If you do decide to contact her on the dating site, you've got to decide whether or not you want to bring up the hobby. I see pros and cons to either choice. Originally Posted by blowpop
BP, you are more eloquent, than I am, I meant no foul with my first post, but the way, I read this thread from the Title of it.... " OP Struck Gold" there have been several little discussions about this topic, in my short time here, I have read them...I have seen several of the ladies here, on different sites, I did not start a thread...

I can sleep tonight.....
DallasRain's Avatar
I have seen several providers at swinger parties I attended.also saw a couple of past hobbyist too

I was looking at a singers site today for a party I will be attending,when i came across a provider from dallas that I have seen eccie

I say it is their personal business to do what they want
Lots of providers are on dating sites, also on sugar daddy/sugar baby sites. So fucking what?
Poetray's Avatar
It is not a bright idea,
To pursue with out disclosure,
Just one side knows 'Que Seria,'
Makes it hard to keep composure.

Your sure to have expectations,
Not ready for the emotions,
Thinking whether sex relations,
are just going through the motions.

For out there it is not business,
Seeing her in another light,
She won't have her full defenses,
It will lead to a restless night.

If it is to be meaningful,
And if you wish to be with her,
Then tell it all to her in full,
Her life is not your theater.
yeah i do that sometimes...
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