You become and ATF when you're Meeting AND Exceeding your hobbyst expectations, better than the others.Very insightful...I see my ATF almost weekly. It was the chemistry at first, we just got each other and I felt extremely relaxed with her, like an old civilian fuck buddy. It got progressively better the more we saw each other. She has that ability to make me feel like when she's with me there's no place else she'd rather be...that takes talent.
Hobbyst expectations range across a full spectrum of different things and combinations (some mentioned above: Attitude, drive, connection/click etc) For some guys it will be a wild ride, for others a nice massage, or maybe the convo and even the availability for texting/emailing/talking when needed.
You want to be an ATF: Then be good at decoding/reading your hobbyst expectations and delivering and exceeding what he needs....if that is in your interest. (some will have un-reasonable expectations)
This is very similar to what takes you back to a product or service, but with a higher emotional component. Some poor marketeers will call it "brand loyalty". Loyalty works with my wife, we're together eventhough some days we can't stand each other. With a paid service/product, I would not take a fraction of the crap I would take from my wife ;-) With money across, no room for loyalty.
Bottom line, the ATF/Brand Loyalty concept is simply that: Meet and exceed your hobbyst expectations...better than the others.
This why most ATF have a more relational attitude than a transactional attitude...but that is another story/marketing 101.
Smile it's just Monday....it'll get better.
. Originally Posted by 4karlos
List of acronyms that are NON-existent:Disagree, DG. I have an ATF (my personal ALL TIME FAVORITE) provider. She is just that! When I look back at all the women that I have paid to spend time with me, she is my FAVORITE of all time. I laugh all the time at how that term gets thrown around. "she's one of my atf's, she is rapidly becoming one of my atf's, my fav: she is one of my atf's" and such nonsense. To me, a favorite is "my favorite". Period.
GFE
PSE
ATF Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
...I wonder what you all feel, personality wise or physically in a provider that prompts you personally to dub her as your ATF? Originally Posted by obedientoneSome of us are in this for VARIETY, so the acronym "ATF" means nothing
List of acronyms that are NON-existent:
ATF
Take off the rose colored glasses. You're making fools of yourselfs.
-signed,
Former Fool Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
I have an ATF (my personal ALL TIME FAVORITE) provider. She is just that! When I look back at all the women that I have paid to spend time with me, she is my FAVORITE of all time. Originally Posted by bbkid
Some of us are in this for VARIETY, so the acronym "ATF" means nothing
OTOH, a provider once told me what "ATF" stood for...
Just... Another Trick to Fuck Originally Posted by DickEmDown
List of acronyms that are NON-existent:
GFE
PSE
ATF
Take off the rose colored glasses. You're making fools of yourselfs.
-signed,
Former Fool Originally Posted by Dorian Gray
Some of us are in this for VARIETY, so the acronym "ATF" means nothingWow! Kinda harsh bruh's. LOL. Interesting...
OTOH, a provider once told me what "ATF" stood for...
Just... Another Trick to Fuck Originally Posted by DickEmDown
Wow! Kinda harsh bruh's. LOL. Originally Posted by TheDrNothing harsh about the truth, or should I say, "my opinion" bruh...
Nothing harsh about the truth, or should I say, "my opinion" bruh...Duly noted
I mean, I'm sure there are a few ladies who have clients who are more "special" to them than others but bottom line...
If she ain't fucking you for free, you're just an "ATF" or a good fuck buddyOriginally Posted by DickEmDown
Nothing harsh about the truth, or should I say, "my opinion" bruh...Not stealing your line IG but that's exactly what I would say to my man DeD: "Duly noted!" LMFAO
I mean, I'm sure there are a few ladies who have clients who are more "special" to them than others but bottom line...
If she ain't fucking you for free, you're just an "ATF" or a good fuck buddyOriginally Posted by DickEmDown