Just a matter of opinion. ...

I prefer incalls.

in call only (SO) , private apt only ,

I prefer outcalls but it's often difficult. I'm in Pleasant grove so not a favorable area for people to drive to. I single so nothing to hide. I'm self employed so no threat of being exposed.
But I am not opposed to incalls, just usually a ways to travel.

Definitely incall to a private residence

EZ's post in the provider/hobbyist friend debate thread is enough to make me say incall, all day, every day. Forever.

In call. Residence or hotel, I usually skip the motel for fear of Leo, but that might be unfounded. I also always use the elevator and go up 1 floor extra the walk down the stairs to see if anyone is hiding. Ocd, I have to do it.

I can do either or but in my honest opinion I prefer outcalls. Just less of a hassle to me.