Advice Needed

Sounds like you texted her about 30 times too many and gave her too many options. "I'd love to see you, baby, but if you're busy I understand, so let me know." Ever wonder why that never really results in an appointment? It's because she may be your ATF, but you're just another client to her.

Next time, keep it simple. Request a time and day and leave her alone until the day of the appointment. Confirm it about an hour or so beforehand. If she's forgotten or flaked, tell her nevermind and go stick it to your Plan B. Then never call her again.

This is not supposed to be that much work......


enderwiggin........ Go to see ya back sir

enderwiggin........ Go to see ya back sir Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Thanks, EA. Good to be back.

ender! Wassssuuuupppp!

Well, thanks for the input everyone; even the not so flattering ones. I've realized, for awhile now, that one should expect all sorts of responses to a post or thread. I can accept that.

Happy and safe hobbying, everyone.

ender! Wassssuuuupppp! Originally Posted by notanewbie

Oh you know, man, just trolling for fatties online. The usual.

Well, thanks for the input everyone; even the not so flattering ones. I've realized, for awhile now, that one should expect all sorts of responses to a post or thread. I can accept that.

Happy and safe hobbying, everyone. Originally Posted by milagro1970

Hope you're able to intake all this and solve your problem.

It's only a problem if you make it one.... Move on. Too many choices here. Sounds like this ATF stuff is a one way street.

.....Sounds like this ATF stuff is a one way street. Originally Posted by gearslut

Yup!!!!

Im sorry that you are going thru that.....a good ATF is hard to find! .... they are special.... they make you smile....send you sweet goodmorning texts and ask if you can bring by lunch on your break :-) .... but as to this hobby sometimes a "break" is not a bad thing....because it gives me a chance to say CALL ME BABY let me cheer you up! .....seriously call me - wink!

Thanks, for your advice, Rocketman 2155. You're right, it is hard to find an ATF.


I never thought about that, Alyssa XOXO, but that does make a lot of sense. Thank you, for your insight, beautiful. Originally Posted by milagro1970

Anytime sweetie! This Hobby should keep a BIG shyt grinning smile on your face at ALL times, not stress....

Yep...

Originally Posted by DickEmDown

Never, ever, ever get worried or spend a split second thinking about something like this. She's not your girlfriend, she's a hooker.

Originally Posted by DickEmDown