What would you do?

She is a provider, she really cant afford to spill the beans. Because she would be spilling the beans on herself.
Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Lisa, you maybe haven't been around these boards as long as some of us, but there have been providers in the past who have outed hobbyists because they were pissed off about something or other. Yes, they outed themselves, too, at the same time. Sometimes when someone gets mad enough, they will burn down the house with themselves still in it. Us old timers have seen well known and respected providers do that in the past, so I'm sure that it will happen again.
My advice is like others have said: keep your personal life personal and your hobby life totally separate. Now that this girl knows who you really are, I say ask her out as a date, and if she says no, let it go.
Just my .02.

Sounds tempting but IMHO it's best to keep your real life and hobby life separated.

Good Luck! Originally Posted by boardman

Word from the wise, don't... let it go. Like Boardman says keep things separate. I speak from experience.

This would be hard on me.... I would want to pursue but i think it would be best to let it go.

So who is she? link? Originally Posted by DaChef

+1

welll what ever you do.... let us "know the rest of the story......"

PM me her information; i do not have to worry about what a wife has to say;
Thanks inadvance;

Always, always, always keep your hobby life and your Real Life apart.

There are lots of women to play with who aren't connected to your family. This direction seems insanely risky to me, no matter how tempting.

The kid in me says: "Don't do it!" But the perv in me says: "Go for it!" Originally Posted by The G.O.A.T

I love frosted mini-wheats!

TRUST TRUST TRUST tikkler33....WAY too many ways to stumble.
Since she is connected to you through others, she could find out where you live/work/hang otu and make things real bad...no peach-pickin' is worth that!!

OH hell, go for it. Divorce is not that expensive, time consuming or painful.
....and you were looking for a job when you found the one you have now...

Just be honest with her maybe? See if this could be mutually beneficial ? Are You married? Is there risk involved for You? But then again on the other hand someone making the connection might make her uncomfortable. ??

This is a bad situation waiting to happen the most and I mean the most I would do if she is in deep at least as deep as you with the boards and all, I would let her flat out know first that I hobby so, as to put myself out there and to say I know that you hobby. I would let her know it might be to awkward for us to hook up it would be cool either way. I would play it more to the point that if she is hot she prob has alot of UTR girlfriends she chould hook you up with I mean you need to be straight to the point and put it out there bissness like let her know your not trying to hold her hostage and reminde her I do this too, tell her if this is the last you ever want to hear from me about it thats fine I will not treat you different. I think it coult work out good for some of the hosewife pussy that needs some good lovein.

what a small small world we live in. I say do it. The worse thing that can happen is that your whole family finds out you paid her cash to bang her. If she is a wild ride it might be worth it.

Just try to thinck WWBJD.

OH hell, go for it. Divorce is not that expensive, time consuming or painful.
....and you were looking for a job when you found the one you have now... Originally Posted by CivilBarrister

... at this stage in my life... I ask myself...would I rather be on my death bed regretting I did it...or regretting I didn't do it...