References?

Just browse around and ask the ones that says they screen for newbies. I was lucky for my first one it was an easy screen

Just browse around and ask the ones that says they screen for newbies. I was lucky for my first one it was an easy screen Originally Posted by linsane

And then you ask that one to be a reference in the future?

Make sure you get references on them as well not just the Board. Some of them have several good reviews but you don't know which ones are dishonest, managed or routine outters....a Houston provider got roughed up out of town based upon an SA provider giving references. I was told by a Dallas provider to go and see that same provider who I later found out was completely dramatic....works both ways my friend.

^^ Maybe you were thrown into the fray for being a pos stalker.

References? I don't need no fucking references.

^^ Maybe you were thrown into the fray for being a pos stalker. Originally Posted by Luxury Daphne

Shots fired!

References? I don't need no fucking references. Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

"fucking references" pun intended?

How you can you stalk someone you don't know? That just doesn't make sense? Can you explain that one? I got a reference to a drama queen from her BFF. Her other BFF has had bunches of sessions with me drama free.

How you can you stalk someone you don't know? That just doesn't make sense? Can you explain that one? I got a reference to a drama queen from her BFF. Her other BFF has had bunches of sessions with me drama free. Originally Posted by The Player

To be fair, I think people stalk others they don't know all the time. Think celebrities... Chances are their stalkers don't know them.

That being said, I think the term "stalker" is thrown around all too liberally these days, so much so that it has lost meaning. "OMG he texted me twice! what a stalker!"

+100

As someone who was stalked by a former pro athlete who is now in prison, it does bother me that it's thrown about as easily as it is.

^^^^ OJ?

So OP you have any luck yet?

^^^^ OJ?

So OP you have any luck yet? Originally Posted by mr666

An effort in futility so far.

It is like the a job search fresh out of university. "Entry level position: 5 years experience required"

Best newbie advice would be to build a reputation on P411 it makes screening a breeze. I would shop on p411 for girls who are newbie friendly, look on Eccie for reviews on them (you'll need to buy a month of premium access to see the review details) to make sure they are good, then schedule using p411

Do that a few times and write reviews on your experiences here while getting okays on p411 and you'll be in good shape to see pretty much anyone else you want.

The screening process for most girls is simple, mostly they're just trying to verify that you're not LE and not a psycho. So yeah you just provide them with references who vouch for that and you're gtg.

After you get some reviews and especially some p411 okays most providers stop asking for additional references although some will still want a vouch. Depends on the provider.

Good luck and welcome to the dark side

Best newbie advice would be to build a reputation on P411 it makes screening a breeze. I would shop on p411 for girls who are newbie friendly, look on Eccie for reviews on them (you'll need to buy a month of premium access to see the review details) to make sure they are good, then schedule using p411

Do that a few times and write reviews on your experiences here while getting okays on p411 and you'll be in good shape to see pretty much anyone else you want.

The screening process for most girls is simple, mostly they're just trying to verify that you're not LE and not a psycho. So yeah you just provide them with references who vouch for that and you're gtg.

After you get some reviews and especially some p411 okays most providers stop asking for additional references although some will still want a vouch. Depends on the provider.

Good luck and welcome to the dark side Originally Posted by SpiceItUp

Thanks. God Dammit if that wasn't helpful. I'm sure that information was buried deep in the bowels of this site, but finding it would have required work on my part, maybe even entering a term or two into a search box.
I appreciate it fella.

The dude abides