A Kitty Encounter!!!! Please Be Very Aware She is NOT THE VICTIM!!!

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what a despicable person.... and i wont call her a lady!!
That is why I don't like to have friends that I can't learn anything from them!!

A better way to live~ ......Og Mandino
I pray she hits rock bottom before she hits the grave....which isn't likely to happen if people keep helping her.

I'm so sorry this happen to you, GS2 and I'm guessing the many others that aren't even on this board. It is good human nature to want to help others. If you have no desire to help those in need there is something wrong with you! Y'all definitely have your hearts in the right places. At some point though logic needs to take over when emotion is no longer effective. I don't think anyone will question that the person in question has overspent everyone's emotions with even half a heart to give. She needs to be dealt with rationally - no emotions. Stop enabling her behavior with continued day-by-day assistance because it feels better to help than do nothing. If you really want to help her, get on your knees and pray for her! 0.02
the beat goes on the beat goes on
I do have to wonder if she even reads this stuff? or even cares?
Jaci's Avatar
  • Jaci
  • 08-26-2013, 03:39 PM
Good Gawd!!!!!!
Just a thought but could BLT set up something like a PayPal account to accept donations to help get her a new place? I considered but didn't help Kitty because of her history, that being said I cannot slam someone for trying to help someone else - just not the nature of many of us. BLT is an upstanding provider and person. I'd be glad to help her out. Thoughts?
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  • motor
  • 08-26-2013, 07:26 PM
Best bet on this thread is to let it go into the depths of post from the past
Awwww... I'm pleased by the concerns on this board... I do understand the meaning of you can't help everyone but I always find the exception & reach out anyway... I know my niceness is mistaken for weakness But my heart is big so I don't see the mistake of being nice....

EasyLover214.. your generosity is above me... Thank you very much for you kind gesture... I do have a PayPal account by the way...

Motor all I can say is WOW!!!! I'm still in stock of what happened... They can let it go here... But I know I will feel this for awhile...
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I pray she hits rock bottom before she hits the grave....which isn't likely to happen if people keep helping her.

I'm so sorry this happen to you, GS2 and I'm guessing the many others that aren't even on this board. It is good human nature to want to help others. If you have no desire to help those in need there is something wrong with you! Y'all definitely have your hearts in the right places. At some point though logic needs to take over when emotion is no longer effective. I don't think anyone will question that the person in question has overspent everyone's emotions with even half a heart to give. She needs to be dealt with rationally - no emotions. Stop enabling her behavior with continued day-by-day assistance because it feels better to help than do nothing. If you really want to help her, get on your knees and pray for her! 0.02 Originally Posted by thathottnurse
What the nurse said is right on the money!
BLT - I'll committ to $200 that I'll send this weekend. Either post the PayPal email here so people can donate or email me at easylover214@gmail.com. Hope others would like to help too (HINT HINT HINT). Motor - I agree the drama posts with Kitty need to die but for me this is about helping BLT without her having to beg for 200 clients in the next month.
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BLT, I am truly sorry for your plight. You were earnestly trying to help someone you thought needed assistance. However, it backfired. I would be willing to contribute to you getting back on your feet. I hope things return to normal quickly.
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Just a thought but could BLT set up something like a PayPal account to accept donations to help get her a new place? I considered but didn't help Kitty because of her history, that being said I cannot slam someone for trying to help someone else - just not the nature of many of us. BLT is an upstanding provider and person. I'd be glad to help her out. Thoughts? Originally Posted by EasyLover214
Are you kidding me??? Help out BLT- did you read what she did- she basically kidnapped a person(Kitty Lamour)- locked her in a room against her will- which is a felony in this country. She belittled her and physically abused her- all while her son was there- how dare anyone help out BLT.

We need to support Kitty Lamour she is the true and only VICTIM on here. Kitty doesn't deserve this type of treatment. BLT should be arrested and facing felony charges of kidnapping and abuse. Eccie should ban BLT with all the lies she has spread about poor Kitty Lamour who has been through so much and none of it her fault. I think we should donate to Kitty Lamour so she can get a new Kenwood radio and help her furnish her new apartment.

Disclaimer: The above statement is to be taken with 100 percent sarcasm.
I like to thank you all for being extremely understanding during this time... I've located another unit less paper work & will be UTR... it's a house.... I do appreciate all the kind uplifting words from all of those who have spoke to me... Thank you all again... gerri0727@gmail.com My paypal account link to those that wanted it... Again Thank you!!!
roxy28's Avatar
well... not taking up for anyone here, but what exactly would you do if you chose to help someone out, brought them to your house and then they became a violent and ranting basket case. maybe she locked her up for her own good? LOL who knows, but I know I wouldnt let someone act a fool at my place after I chose to HELP them. >02