Questions? Which is better

I no longer freak out if asked because some people are extra nasty like and will participate in BBFS in the hobby as long there are women/men who are just willing to take that particular risk. If asked I simply tell them "No, a female condom/FC2 which I have plenty of is as close to bareback as anyone I put out for will get".

If you're not comfortable with BBBJ, then maybe FBSM is a better match for you. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Nuru would be off the menu, unless it was a "reverse Nuru" ..

I offer NURU.
And NURU doesn't have to be off of the menu if you also do FBSM or other types of massage ... if i'm gonna grind all over someone's junk I put a condom on them. When I started offering NURU about hmmmm 18 months ago I got asked so much if I offered stripper slide w/ my NURU massage it became a FAQ and I added to that section of my website .... it's those damn porno NURU videos you find pretty much every that have guys assuming that must be part of it.

I offer NURU.
And NURU doesn't have to be off of the menu if you also do FBSM or other types of . Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Is this threAD about you? Just asking!

For some strange reason I thought it was about the OP.

I offer NURU.
. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

I'll pass ....

http://tastymsmocha.escort-site.com/services.phtml

.. especially on the nuru!

Female condoms are awesome! I keep a couple almost all the time. Just in case someone has a problem with a regular one. But, if someone asks me about bbfs - the communication/session stops immediately. Clearly stated in my showcase and all my ads.

Female condoms are awesome! I keep a couple almost all the time. Just in case someone has a problem with a regular one. But, if someone asks me about bbfs - the communication/session stops immediately. Clearly stated in my showcase and all my ads. Originally Posted by Lady Elizabeth

I think this is a very good, level-headed response. After running the gamut, I, like others, prefer FC2 for sensation and peace of mind. BBFS has no place in the hobby, where everything is shared.

Is this threAD about you? Just asking!

For some strange reason I thought it was about the OP. Originally Posted by LexusLover

No I don't do threADS but as someone who happens to also perform this service I saw nothing wrong with chiming in ya know giving my opinion ..... like everyone else. You quoted another lady who is not the OP who was talking about the OP not being comfortable w/ bbbj and had suggested FBSM and you mentioned that NURU would be off of the menu (which made me wonder if you maybe thought that type of massage would require bare contact privates-to-privates). Relax a bit....it's cool.
Btw you posted the wrong link/section of my site (there's clearly a separate section for my home rates and one for touring) and I wasn't personally offering myself to you either sooooo okey dokey lol pass right on.

My apologies you are correct, I should've explained it better. When I get offended is only when even after I tell them no, which u are correct ask for it I don't mind, u wanna make sure it's what your looking for right? Understandable, but after I have said no not only once but again and again and each text will try and bribe me and say " come on now I know you want n need this 40$ or please please please or everyone else is doing it come on stop bullshitting"

Maybe offended is the wrong choice of word but if I can respect that's what u want and just say no, why all the extra "bribing".


It's business I understand that very we'll and I know where I will Take a hit, but not respecting why the shop across the street closes at 5 and the other at 7 and both sell the same things, is why I'm offended. That's al.

If you get offended if a customer asks for a BBBJ, you're going to have a lot of misery. Most guys want BBBJ and a much smaller percentage want BBFS. A customer should be able to ask for what he wants, but that does not mean you have to do it. You should stick to what makes you comfortable. But the requests will keep coming so you need to realize that is just part of this business.

To answer your other question, I prefer male condoms over female condoms. Originally Posted by BFCjosh

I truly cannot fathom a fellow not wanting to be safe also

I truly cannot fathom a fellow not wanting to be safe also Originally Posted by peevee0931

It happens I know that I can't expect everyone to agree and like the way I do n see things. But I can respect it, because your entitled to what u want. But I don't understand what the same respect isn't given back

😒

I appreciate all the feedback and comments from everyone, an now I'm going to go gran some FC lol lol and then ima need some testers! Lol but I think my choice in words where incorrect as far as saying offended because they asked for it.

No, that's not it. I'm offended only because I respect your wants and expect the same in return but instead want to try and bribe in order to get what u want. Like I'm suppose to say "we'll....... Ok"


It's customer service, I can't please everyone this I know. And the day I start trying is the day I die, because it's impossible. But I can just be me and the right ones will appreciate just that.

If you're not comfortable with BBBJ, then maybe FBSM is a better match for you. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I'm not sure I can add anything here as it's all been expressed! So! I'll reiterate!
BBFS - Most Providers don't offer, unless they're naive to the realities, even non providers avoid bbfs.
BBBJ - Are highly sought after, and CIM, DT, Gagging, Swallowing are Dollar Add Ons, Right or Wrong.
(Having said this, it's all based on money! A lady offering these commands a higher price.) I say haggle back, and let them know their getting a better deal, money wise, by being safe, however, and U already know this it's a deal clincher for most, I'm sorry to say! I totally agree with what a couple of other providers said, By Offering FBSM, 1 Can Demand the Slightly Higher Fees, While the BB expectations, are a Little Less! The quality efforts, that go into a good rub, are beneficial to the provider, money wise and physically, as well as opens the doors to a new group of customers. The physical can wear U down, however in the long run it's actually great 4 U, and profitable.
Also, alot of providers offer Bbbj's but just No CIM, IJS!
One last thing to think about, when working with a Verified Provider, it's probably alot safer to offer bbbj's to someone that is verifiable, where as a BP/CL customer, who knows!
Offering Greek is another add on both in upping UR Fee, and in making yourself more desirable to the market! JMO
No matter what, there are Hard Cold Realities, and there's ways of making this business work, none of which are easy, but are definitely doable! JMO

Yes the respect should go both ways ...

I appreciate all the feedback and comments from everyone, an now I'm going to go gran some FC lol lol and then ima need some testers! Lol but I think my choice in words where incorrect as far as saying offended because they asked for it.

No, that's not it. I'm offended only because I respect your wants and expect the same in return but instead want to try and bribe in order to get what u want. Like I'm suppose to say "we'll....... Ok"


It's customer service, I can't please everyone this I know. And the day I start trying is the day I die, because it's impossible. But I can just be me and the right ones will appreciate just that. Originally Posted by MrsCarter

Cheers to that .