I liked being edged but girl currently doing speeds up when I am close. Should I talk w her? It takes me about 8-10 min w condoms CG to get off so when I am close want 2cum. She real good at getting me off. Not sure want fix a god thing. My main fantasies are swimsuit call girls and she is on board w that.
Originally Posted by landon
Hey Landon
Yes I would talk to her while she is giving you head. When you get close to cumming tell her to back off and then switch gears for a moment do something else like watch porn together, lick and/or play with her pussy, massage her feet (there are erogenous zones in the feet)or have her just lick your balls and then continue that pattern until you want to explode.
You need to use mind control over your orgasms also and things like martial arts (I have taken this and it is very powerful for developing mind control), meditation, deep breathing really help you to do that
When I deepthroat, the way I have learned to breathe thru my mouth and control my gag reflex is thru mind control. You have a lot of power over your body when it comes to your mind. People have dissolved cancerous growths by using visualization (mind control) to get rid of it and you can do the same thing when it comes to erection issues and/or edging
There is an art to giving good head and like anything it takes desire, practice and determination. I am very competitive when it comes to giving head and the gym lol. The best way any girl can get really good at giving head is to either get into porn and/or give head to lots of guys and get feedback on doing it. I have done both and I can say giving head to lots of guys/feedback is the better way to get good at this. Porn is ok, but getting honest feedback is better.
It will take time to get good at this like anything in life, but if you have the desire to succeed at this, you can and will get good at giving head. However, most girls do not like to give head, so kind of hard to get good at something you don't like.
Most men will say that the biggest ingredient to giving good head is enthusiasm and love of doing it - so if you just have that to begin with, then you are going in the right direction.
It took one guy many years ago (that I was romantically attracted to) to tell me I sucked at giving head. This really had a major impact on me but it spurred me to not only prove him wrong, but to get really good at this... and now I am lol. Now I should go give him some head and show him just how good I have gotten! He is probably married to some girl that doesn't even give him any head! lol