Sometimes we underestimate how much the brain has to do with an orgasm. You have to really be able to let go and lose yourself in it. Your mind has to be in tune with your body. Originally Posted by BlissAt the risk of being accused of bragging... I once (and only once) gave a girlfriend of mine an O so intense that she passed out for about 3-5 minutes and was literally incoherent for another 20 or so. During that 25 minutes I was just about panicking, wondering 1) how was I going to explain this to the paramedics (I was afraid she'd had a stroke), and 2) how was I going to explain this to her kids.*
After she regained her composure, we talked a bit about the experience. It turned out that a whole bunch of factors came together just right for it to happen, and most important on that list was the fact that she was (by her own description) very, very much in love with me. That emotional/mental aspect was critical in that performance. If I was ever going to repeat it (I never did, alas, much to both our disappointment), it was going to be with her, because only she had that emotional connection with me.
Ms. Bliss is very much correct; the mental part of having a great O (or multiple great Os) is very important to the experience.
Cheers,
bcg
* the two youngest were 7 and 5 respectively, which would have been embarrassing enough, but the eldest was 17 and had just discovered how much fun boys are. I'd caught the 17 yo giving me "the look" several times when her mom's attention was diverted elsewhere, and I'm sure that if I'd had to tell her that her mom had died/had a crippling stroke because I'd given her an intense orgasm, I have no doubt in my mind her response would have been to start taking her clothes off saying, "Wow... want to try for two?"
but Ha Ha Only Serious...
