It's been real and it's been fun....

I am curious about this no review policy. From my just getting back into the scene, it would seem to me that this would be detrimental. I know a lady would like me to be verified so she knows I am who I say I am.

I look at reviews the same way, isn't this a measure of safety for me to ensure the lady(s) are legit? Would this not impact their business.

I suppose at the same time I am a bit naive in that I think it ludicrous someone would do a bogus review so there is that on me.

Cheers
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I can only speak for myself, but I do not screen gentlemen via their reviews. You have reviews means nothing to me and does not count as screening. Any guy can write a review on any lady (stripper, amp, agency, girls from other sites.. etc) there is no way to verify that a review is legit or bogus unless the lady is a member here and says other wise. Your reviews also do not tell me what kind of client you are and how you act during a session. That's why you provide references, alternative screening etc... so you become verified. You do not just become "verified" because you write a review.

I can understand a new lady needing multiple reviews etc to build up her reputation and to let clients know what she offers and what not. However if a lady has been a member here for multiple years, with over 100 or so reviews, they have always been positive and the consistently of service has stayed the same... then a new review is not always needed. What additional information could you possibly need that you havent already read to know she is legit?

If the service is still the same, nothing new has been added to the menu or something taken off, her appearance hasn't drastically changed, her tcb or bcd skills are still the same. Then what's the point of writing a new reviews to say the same old things that another guy has said before? I understand if she lost or gained weight, moved to a new area, now offers incalls, now offers gfe but didnt before, added new menu items.. etc then a couple new reviews would be beneficial.

With all the new laws etc I can understand why so many do not want them. No reason to paint a bigger target on your back and literally sign the dotted line when you literally omit in writing to paying so and so for sexual services. Reviews can and have been used against numerous people before in court against both ladies and clients so why make it even easier for them to build a case against you. You can said they are fictional all you want but not a single person believes that bs. You are paying for sex and writing all about it on a review board built solely for doing so.

Most ladies who dont want reviews are not doing it to hide something or to be a pain in the ass. I know many who would be open to them as long as they were more so of a testimonial and not a straight out porn play by play.

Like the basics with stuff such as was she/session on time, pictures accurate, services rendered, was the location easy to find and clean.. so and so. Not full details on how she sucked your dick, how many times you think you made her orgasm, how you flipped her over like some acrobat and so on. Bogus reviews happen all the time.

Do you actually believe everything you read in some of these reviews? Id bet most are completely over exhaggerated and full of things that didn't happen. Why do you think the ladies can't see them? I love the most often used phrase guys mention here...I made her cum like 6 times in 30 mins... ya ok!

To me the thing I get most from reviews is the ability to see how high volume some ladies are. I mean maybe you like reviews to gather information but sometimes it may not be all good. When I see 4 guys write reviews all for the same girl with the same session date to me would do the opposite of helping a lady and her business. I mean knowing 4 guys were up in her business that day would make me want to steer clear unless I didnt mind being number 5 that day.

Thank you Britttany!
That seems like a reasonable explanation. One thing though is using a review to verify a guy. My reasoning was a provider uses my information such as a driver's license as alternate screening. Without reviews how is a new guy to know if she is legit? Also with the forum going down, a long length of reviews may be missing.

Hope that makes sense what I was conveying. Your response make perfect sense!!!
Thanks for that.
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Thank you Britttany!
That seems like a reasonable explanation. One thing though is using a review to verify a guy. My reasoning was a provider uses my information such as a driver's license as alternate screening. Without reviews how is a new guy to know if she is legit? Also with the forum going down, a long length of reviews may be missing.

Hope that makes sense what I was conveying. Your response make perfect sense!!!
Thanks for that.
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There is really no answer to that question. When giving your personal information to a lady for screening there is no sure way to know what will happen. She can be verified or be new and shit could still go wrong. Not all verified ladies act professional just as not all new providers are tips.

Do your research before you just hand over your real world information if thats the only option you have and are comfortable doing so. I screen newbies all day long some I meet and then some we have never connected. I dont save that information and use it only for verification and then it is deleted. I dont care about your personal life or your job. Just because a lady doesnt have recent reviews doesnt mean something is wrong. Some of us take breaks, have kids etc, go through divorce, breaks ups, custody stuff etc and during those times disappear or go utr. I took a hiatus for a year and was utr, I asked for no reviews because of the real world business obligation I had at the time. I still saw clients but I wanted things to be discreet. It doesn't mean I was hiding or nor longer legit.

Just know that with this hobby and others there will always be risks and you have to weight them and figure out if you are ok with the possibility of an experience not going the way you wanted.

Thank you again.
You are providing some good advice. I do hope my asking the question hasn't ticked a nerve though. Back in my ASPD days I dont recall a no review policy so it is new to me.
I appreciate your wisdome.
Cheers
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Not with me I dont mind reviews as long as they do so discreetly. I however do respect the ladies who do not want them.

Right on!!!

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So it looks like everyone is jumping ship from ECCIE to OH2. Interesting how closing the site down for a few months absolutely killed the traffic here and allowed another site to prosper.

As we all know the shutdown was to clear up any evidence that may alert FOSTA. I’m sure there was a lot of money lost as this site also profits from memberships.

Personally I like both but lean more towards OH2. ECCIE needs to bring back the 18-20 group to compete again. I’m sure this is why the majority of hobbyists have left.

See you on the other Ginger!

Take care princess. Wish you the best.

I wish her the best as well. She is a hottie !!!!!!!

I don't know why limiting your reach to people is a good idea lol maybe the no review was justified. I guess some brats can't take a spanking.

I can only speak for myself, but I do not screen gentlemen via their reviews. You have reviews means nothing to me and does not count as screening. Any guy can write a review on any lady (stripper, amp, agency, girls from other sites.. etc) there is no way to verify that a review is legit or bogus unless the lady is a member here and says other wise. Your reviews also do not tell me what kind of client you are and how you act during a session. That's why you provide references, alternative screening etc... so you become verified. You do not just become "verified" because you write a review.

I can understand a new lady needing multiple reviews etc to build up her reputation and to let clients know what she offers and what not. However if a lady has been a member here for multiple years, with over 100 or so reviews, they have always been positive and the consistently of service has stayed the same... then a new review is not always needed. What additional information could you possibly need that you havent already read to know she is legit?

If the service is still the same, nothing new has been added to the menu or something taken off, her appearance hasn't drastically changed, her tcb or bcd skills are still the same. Then what's the point of writing a new reviews to say the same old things that another guy has said before? I understand if she lost or gained weight, moved to a new area, now offers incalls, now offers gfe but didnt before, added new menu items.. etc then a couple new reviews would be beneficial.

With all the new laws etc I can understand why so many do not want them. No reason to paint a bigger target on your back and literally sign the dotted line when you literally omit in writing to paying so and so for sexual services. Reviews can and have been used against numerous people before in court against both ladies and clients so why make it even easier for them to build a case against you. You can said they are fictional all you want but not a single person believes that bs. You are paying for sex and writing all about it on a review board built solely for doing so.

Most ladies who dont want reviews are not doing it to hide something or to be a pain in the ass. I know many who would be open to them as long as they were more so of a testimonial and not a straight out porn play by play.

Like the basics with stuff such as was she/session on time, pictures accurate, services rendered, was the location easy to find and clean.. so and so. Not full details on how she sucked your dick, how many times you think you made her orgasm, how you flipped her over like some acrobat and so on. Bogus reviews happen all the time.

Do you actually believe everything you read in some of these reviews? Id bet most are completely over exhaggerated and full of things that didn't happen. Why do you think the ladies can't see them? I love the most often used phrase guys mention here...I made her cum like 6 times in 30 mins... ya ok!

To me the thing I get most from reviews is the ability to see how high volume some ladies are. I mean maybe you like reviews to gather information but sometimes it may not be all good. When I see 4 guys write reviews all for the same girl with the same session date to me would do the opposite of helping a lady and her business. I mean knowing 4 guys were up in her business that day would make me want to steer clear unless I didnt mind being number 5 that day. Originally Posted by Britttany_love

Thank You Brittany: Your responses are always spot on and more.

FYI: When I told a lady I was going to do a review after our session she politely asked me not to. I asked her why later.. She was honest and said she offered special rates on occasions to ECCIE guys that were her regulars.? Having rates posted caused her grief with other clients most likely P411 clients (which I am) somehow P411 clients never seem to become regulars, LOL.

Can anyone blame these ladies for leaving with all the restrictions and their ads are not being approved in a timely manner...........?

She is hot!