Emily, that guy must have been an idiot!
Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing
Thanks for the "pick me up". No, he's not an idiot. No more than I am or anyone else
I think it is difficult path to traverse when both parties are participating in the hobby. It's difficult to share ones truth to another. Especially when both have been hiding it from the other.
If Killjoy is talking about a real situation. I would hope he would consider telling her he is in the hobby. And knows she is a provider. Not in a get even type of way. Or an "I gotcha" kind of way. From a calm, caring demeanor. He has time to figure it out.
Yeah, easier said than done. I think it is worth it because secrets are toxic.