When your provider ref is rude beyond words

I will also ad, sometimes I get the most GHETTO replies ever. I love genuine references, positive or negative. But when I can barely read them.... Lol

sounds like professional jealousy to me and the gal is mad because she isn't getting the money and you are Originally Posted by peevee0931

I definitely agree with this!!! And I too have a had a few providers be rude or just not respond at all... in my eyes I would be glad to hear im being used as a reference and also think it keeps us providers a lil more in sync with eachother andbthe eccie world... why be a hater when u can be nice and possibly end up being able to work together or recommend one another when we have a emergency come yp...just sayin ...we should stick together and im positive it can benefit allof us(providers and hobbyists)

<<<< Guilty of being rude. But I give the facts.

(Edit: I give the facts from my perspective. Try to be objective, sometimes not so much Lol)

That being said, it not over jealousy. I recommend many providers based on nothing but word of mouth or personal experience.

Hi there guy and gals,

As a hobbyist, would you want to know if a provider you used as a ref, is OFF THE CHART rude about giving ref's to other providers?

I've screened a few guys this week and one provider was down right mean about it. I haven't told the hobbyist about it but MAN WAS SHE MEAN!!!


So what is your feed back on this topic? Would you want to know if your provider ref's is being bitchy giving you ref? Originally Posted by Kayleehotchick

<<<< Guilty of being rude. But I give the facts.

(Edit: I give the facts from my perspective. Try to be objective, sometimes not so much Lol)

That being said, it not over jealousy. I recommend many providers based on nothing but word of mouth or personal experience. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

To be clear, are we talking rude about giving the reference, rude about me as the client or just cunty in general?

Damn THN and her edit . I click quote and the quoted text had more than I read. Had to check to make sure I didn't quote a 3rd post by mistake.

I would definitely like to know if my references are rude to one of their own. I would be surprised if one of the ref. I give would be that way, but if it happened, and I know about it, I would confront her about it.

To be clear, are we talking rude about giving the reference, rude about me as the client or just cunty in general?

Damn THN and her edit . I click quote and the quoted text had more than I read. Had to check to make sure I didn't quote a 3rd post by mistake. Originally Posted by Boltfan

I think out loud.

I think some providers think they are the only one your seeing and get a "tude". I like all the choices we have here that's why I hobby.

Best Provider Motto: "Ain't no pussy like new pussy"

Learn it. Live it. Love it.

To be clear, are we talking rude about giving the reference, rude about me as the client or just cunty in general?
. Originally Posted by Boltfan

Being cunty in general.

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Best Provider Motto: "Ain't no pussy like new pussy"

Learn it. Live it. Love it. Originally Posted by thathottnurse

Yes, I would want to know.

Hell yes I'd want to know. I only want to see genuinely nice women (but naughty). I dont want to see ones pretending to be nice.

Also word of mouth means more to me than most anything. A lot of ladies I have seen because another hobbyist or provider recommended them. In these cases I've rarely been disappointed. Sex or no sex, I don't care to spend my time with a holes and bitches. I'd rather have great conversation.and snuggle with a nice woman than have sex with some woman that hates me and everyone else.

If a provider is rude to me ever or to anyone I know, chances of me seeing her again drop quickly.

Kaylee, from what I can tell anyone being rude to you has issues. It was def them, and not you.

Kaylee

I would chalk it up to competition or lack of confidence by the provider.
Ladies are more protective of their territory than they used to be.

So, without reading all the drama, what did the requester say about ? The cunty reply?

Sometimes I'll get a negative response when a provider calls me for a referral. I tell them when I saw the client last and give her a brief description of him; physically and a little something about his personality. Not too much because he might be different with her. I don't understand why they get their panties in a twist over it. This takes less than 30 seconds but I've had a few providers who were extremely rude and said things like, "I can see for myself". "You're just mad that he's seeing ME". And "Sorry honey, you lose! " You can usually tell when a provider has had a bad day or if she has that bullshit "My Client" syndrome.

I don't usually tell a client because I believe that you don't tell people things that will only hurt them and serve no other purpose. But if she's really off the charts then I'll say something if the clients asks. I won't initiate that conversation unless she threatens me or something equally infantile. Most clients can get all the drama they want at home. We are supposed to be a comfort for them and tattling isn't in our job description.

I'd think that if it's as bad as you're alluding to, mention it to the client. The last thing they want is a provider with those personality traits and the clients personal information. Who knows when she'll go off on him.