Letting a Provider Down Easy?

Do your home work as suggested, if you do, you will end up with ladies like the CFE and Abi and you will never be disappointed. Quality over quantity is your best bet.

If you schedule with a provider you have taken up their time. This is business for them and time is money. Do your research and be sure if what you want, and if you book their time be man enough to pay the fee. It is business, I bet you would think it was not cool if your boss decided you didn't perform well today, so you get no pay for today.

Do your home work as suggested, if you do, you will end up with ladies like the CFE and Abi and you will never be disappointed. Quality over quantity is your best bet. Originally Posted by Mr. B

Good point go with proven quality.

If you schedule with a provider you have taken up their time. This is business for them and time is money. Do your research and be sure if what you want, and if you book their time be man enough to pay the fee. It is business, I bet you would think it was not cool if your boss decided you didn't perform well today, so you get no pay for today. Originally Posted by Cockzilla

It would not be cool if your boss (customer) decided you did not perform your job well and refused to pay. YOU ARE RIGHT!!

Welcome to the business world...not the employee world.
In the business world customers often do just that.
Ever pay a painter for fucking up the paintjob on your house..?
If so...you need to talk with a shrink. No one would think of paying for that.

In the employee world...well, it is difficult to fire people now days...even if they are total fuck ups.

If you walk into a providers lair and get anything less than OUTSTANDING service...
Shouldn't you just leave.??

If her incall looks like your college dorm and her boyfriend is outside waiting by the pool for you to leave...shouldn't you have the snap to catch on and get out...before you pay enough to cover her room for the week for that 38min. roll around she thinks is super sex.??

If you entered a restaurant and the waiter/waitress was drunk and coughing on the food...would you pay $150 plus tip for that meal..?
If the providers incall smells like catpiss, or there is dogshit on the floor...is that the hobbiests fault.?? Shouldn't he just leave.??
If the providers is on the phone while giving you a blowjob...should you pay..??

Common guys...no wonder there is such terrible service going on out there.

That is not to say that all providers provide this level of service. Some are absolutely excellent at making your day.

Many are not...and if they don't provide the "service".... why are you even entertaining the idea of paying ...??

Just my $0.02
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And remember guys....if she offers Greek and you don't quite fit,

She must still profit.

Fin

And remember guys....if she offers Greek and you don't quite fit,

She must still profit.

Fin Originally Posted by gimme_that

Oh not the you're stick is just too big scam.

Chemistry is a big thing in the hobby, and it's not always there. I agree that if things feel uncomfortable it's better to stop before the session gets started.

If the provider cancels (and I applaud TheCFE and Abi for choosing to do this rather than try to power though a substandard situation) obviously nothing is owed.

However, if the client decides not to follow through with a session, and the provider is as she represented herself (in her ad, for example) I think a reasonable cancellation fee should be offered. The exit should be tactful - either make up some sort of excuse, or simply say "I don't think we're a good match." Arguing about specifics is not going to help anyone.

But if the provider has misrepresented herself (fake photos, significant exaggerations about age, weight, smoking status, etc.) I don't think the guy owes any sort of cancellation fee. Bait and switch should not be rewarded.

LHTX, if you are needing a spark i definitely feel maybe you should do a meet and greet with anyone you have an interest in. Some may not be willing to and that's their call but it will definitely weed out this whole scenario. Just my opinion. Maybe agree to meet on their terms, their availability- if it works for you and convenient location for the both of you. So that minimum time is wasted. Also, most conversations you have with a provider- I would think you would be able to tell, if its there. I mean i am not sure what kind of spark you are looking for, because your first contacting someone off what? photo's/reviews???

What spark are you looking for that you are not going to be able to tell is there or not over the phone?

(My incall is near Spring btw) LOL

Umm depends on timing as so many things. As others have said do your homework first. If that failed... Well, if you're already there you owe here at least part or all of donation. All if you partake. And be sure to let all know via a review. There are no guarantees in this sideshow