Regular Sex..Fetish...Kink?

I like cowboys list of activities, who can I see!
cumalot's Avatar
I hate bananas. And coconut. But I love that canned tropical fruit salad - I add vanilla yogurt & granola to it and it's awesome. Dont like the flavored yogurts - too sweet. A perfect Sunday would include Nascar or football, but college fball is boring & I've never had an interest to watch the Indy500 or the Grand Prix. Don't get me started on bowling or tennis. I'd rather watch a movie from the 30s/40s than anything recent and I'd pick a documentary over well...anything. I've never watched one episode of dancing with the stars or americas got talent but go ballistic if I miss Survivor. <- Does any of that make me normal? More normal? Less normal? Does any of that make me weird? More weird? Less weird? More or less weird (or normal) than...who? Am I more normal than you? More weird than you? Who said? Who defined normal? Who categorizes weird?

Who judges? Originally Posted by babee
Normal is a line drawn in the sand to define behaviors....Normal is subjective and is a word meant to put a label on someone whom they think fits the cookie cutter pattern of a population. I think in the kink world that the word has no meaning or interpretation and is useless in describing activities or behaviors....in the kink world people tend to not judge others and the word becomes moot....ijs
houston_switch's Avatar
Babee...
That is why all of those shows are on television... choice...
Some say we Americans enjoy too much choice... but i think that is what freedom is all about... you making choices, and as long as it does not interfere with the next human... all good...

Besides here in this space, we all try not to judge...
Glad your home...
Just'AintNuttin's Avatar
Drawing a line is to limit one's self to only that on one side of the line, and in doing so you’re making groups of things that would also be on one side or the other of that line. To segregate it into groups standard/traditional and encouragement/convincing is forcing you to name or call things taboo....I say make a list like you just did and pick and choose what you want to do or try and do it without questioning where it falls on a line....Your the one that gets the pleasure from doing the things on the list and certainly not the guy who is bashing activities that you want to try....Your BCD and only you and your partner or partners will know and they ain't gonna say a thing to anyone unless you ask them to. To draw a line, No I wouldn't, but to pick and choose what I want from a list Yes...To put a degrading label on some activity is judging and that's where I draw the line...ijs...If it feels good do it, Life's too short not to live it to the fullest...enjoy the Kink... Originally Posted by cumalot
I am willing to try almost anything once. I feel as long as I have a safe word and my contract with my mistress (s) is honored then all is safe to play. I have found a few of my limits but also have found my limits depend on my level of excitement. If I am going crazy then I have almost no limits. My mistress will guide me into a realm I never knew existed and always felt was taboo. Now I know I deserve my mistress and my existence it tied to her satisfaction. I pray she reads my post and guides me to our journey together.

Ms. Athena's Avatar
Your Mistress is blessed to have such a true and faithful slave...........
Im into this naughty play you all are dreaming of. I need to be brought out some way right well here you go. pm if interested
n1pplenut's Avatar
I was good for about 8 of them. Not that I have tried, some I have some I haven't. I think the cultural environment we are brought up in has the biggest influence. As we get older, we are exposed to other "kinks" than is part of the cultural standard. Some are more open minded, allowing themselves to try things, others aren't.

But as we grow and change, we may not be excited by the same activity. We then have to go to a greater or more taboo kink to get off.

Just one perspective.
Ms. Athena's Avatar
I was good for about 8 of them. Not that I have tried, some I have some I haven't. I think the cultural environment we are brought up in has the biggest influence. As we get older, we are exposed to other "kinks" than is part of the cultural standard. Some are more open minded, allowing themselves to try things, others aren't.

But as we grow and change, we may not be excited by the same activity. We then have to go to a greater or more taboo kink to get off.

Just one perspective. Originally Posted by n1pplenut


SO true, I find many of my older gentleman friends are the ones more open to explore and venture into the world of Kink..........
DaChef's Avatar
yeah cause they been there done that.
Let's try them, and then you can decide...
cbh's Avatar
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  • 06-04-2012, 11:15 AM
I say 21 outta 23 lol