Well, so far, I can physically attracted to a provider, but I get that "there's just something not right for me here" vibe. Hot, sure, but would we get along in real life, of which I'm giving up an hour of mine, and some money, to hang and do the deed?
The Meyers Briggs graph pretty much assures us that 25% of the population isn't going to like us. Those odds go up or down depending on whether you are mingling with like-minded people or you're as far oof home base as Jimi Hendrix at a Klan meeting.
The old thing about how a provider loves our wallets is one thing, but so does every waitress, car salesman and roofing contractor on the planet. They provide valuable, if utiltatarian, services, and can be a big waste of time while they have their hand in your wallet. I was just wondering if we can avoid that sort of experience on the front end by getting and going with an immediate yes/no response to a picture. Like I said, not a little head "oooo, boobies" response that has led to disaster for many of us at one time or another, but that very first gut compatibility response.
Originally Posted by phildo
For me, a provider's pictures are easier to be a turn off than a turn on for me. Sure there are going to be ones I'm more physically attracted to, but personality goes a long way as a turn on (or off) for me so I tend to want to get a better idea of what a lady is like there before I'll see them.