I'm always surprised by the number of girls (civilians, I mean) who say they don't like it. My last girlfriend had moved here from Arkansas and told me "Guys back home don't do that, so I never learned to like it." She said it always made her self-conscious and she didn't believe any guy really wanted to do that. She said she liked to give blowjobs, but never cottoned to the idea that if she liked to give oral, maybe a guy really could too.
Originally Posted by KCQuestor
You know, that is one of the most mind blowing - and delightful aspects of providing. I don't really know why, but I can honestly count on one hand the number of boyfriends I had in my lifetime who genuinely loved DATY. I honestly thought most men didn't enjoy it, and I was also very self conscious when a guy went down on me because of it. I always felt awkward, and wanted to hurry up and cum so that he'd feel like his obligation was over. I almost felt bad in a way if a guy went down on me, like he was doing me a favor.
Discovering how many men in this hobby don't just enjoy DATY, but LOVE it, was totally mind blowing. It is one of many reasons why I can't imagine ever going back to civy sex. Escort sex ROCKS compared to civy sex, and DATY is one of the many reasons why.
Having said that though, I would never *insist* on it either. It IS all about what the gentleman, and if DATY doesn't float his boat, there are plenty of other things to occupy our time