words of wisdom on Eccie-by incognito isis

Still Looking's Avatar
I enjoyed talking to you also! I hope you get to feeling more comforatable with ECCIE and post a show case! I for one would like that! Once you recover from the surgury I'll look forward to hearing about your schedule! If there are any healing issues don't for get about my offer!

In the mean time.. In the words of Rodney King, "Stop Hitting me!" Lets have fun, at the end of the day, lifes to short!

And I'm sure no one hates you!
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Surcher, baby, my love, the words of wisdom is what I hope we can all come to on Eccie. Not the fighting and bashing. My poem was a reflection of the escorting life and Eccie. Words of wisdom is what Eccie should be a tool of. Ya get it? Also, if you disgree with me so much, if I bother you so, why follow me around and follow my posts baby?

STILL LOOKING: FINALLY MY DARLING WE GOT TO CHIT CHAT ON THE PHONE. YOU ARE ONE FUNNY FELLA. I KNOW NOW YOUR PM'S ARE GUNNA BE LIGHTING UP BECAUSE, ENQUIRING MINDS WANT TO KNOW ABOUT THE ENIGMATIC INCOGNITOOOOOOOOOOOOO ISIS

I MUST ADMIT DARLING, MY EGO WAS A LITTLE STROKED WHEN I FOUND OUT ALL THESE PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PM'ING YOU ABOUT ME

I guess I'm just the girl everyone loves to hate. Originally Posted by incognito isis
Still Looking kept sending me links to your posts telling me to go read your unbelievable bullshit. I guess those pm's didn't come up. How else would I know you were bashing the men of Eccie in a thread in western NY? Now you want to tell us how Eccie should be in a poem? He chased you and posted behind you all over Eccie and you finally remember you posted you'd call him, over a week ago. He gets your call, after he posts a poem meant to insult you, then he outs people to you and kisses your ass.

Still, you lost all respect from me. I hope it/she was worth it. Keep your new pet, but don't pm me about her again. I gave her BS more than it deserved, thanks to you.

Sorry Isis, I wasn't your stalker. Yet, according to Still, who was, the women you claimed backed you, were the majority of your detractors. That would say something to a normal person, however, normal isn't you.

Surcher out!
Still Looking kept sending me links to your posts telling me to go read your unbelievable bullshit. How else would I know you were bashing the men of Eccie in a thread in western NY? Now you want to tell us how Eccie should be in a poem? He chased you and posted behind you all over Eccie and you finally remember you posted you'd call him, a week ago. He gets your call, after he posts a poem meant to insult you, then he outs people to you and kisses your ass. Still, you lost all respect from me. Originally Posted by surcher
Ah respect? Dude you are more lost then I originally thought! Lose the respect, Like I care? LOL I lost all for you long ago. Your opinion is less than nothing to me. You can say anything you want. You want me to believe you, prove it. Because your the troll whos been following me around. If what you speak of is true, thats ok also. I forgive him and I think Still Looking is a sweety. Your jelous of me because no one is kissing your ass. I'm sure I ruffled his feathers a little, I guess I just ruffle everyones feathers. He's a human being, and were all just people. We pee and poo all the same, right Still Looking? LOL (inside joke)

Surcher, I'm going to pray. Pray you find love in your heart, not hatred. For I am a compassionate person underneath all the ECCIE b.s. Your a man who needs love, we all do. I think you are a "surcher" of love. I hope the ice around your heart melts someday and you find all that you need and crave. So don't be jelous because a guy here diggs me.
I enjoyed talking to you also! I hope you get to feeling more comforatable with ECCIE and post a show case! I for one would like that! Once you recover from the surgury I'll look forward to hearing about your schedule! If there are any healing issues don't for get about my offer!

In the mean time.. In the words of Rodney King, "Stop Hitting me!" Lets have fun, at the end of the day, lifes to short!

And I'm sure no one hates you! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Believe me, I won't be losing any sleep over it if they do!!!!
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Isis, I am waiting for the day that you log-on to Eccie and post something...anything positive. Pick any subject. Your Isis persona is constantly negative.
Surcher, I'm going to pray. Pray you find love in your heart, not hatred. For I am a compassionate person underneath all the ECCIE b.s. Your a man who needs love, we all do. I think you are a "surcher" of love. I hope the ice around your heart melts someday and you find all that you need and crave. So don't be jelous because a guy here diggs me. Originally Posted by incognito isis
Isis, I am waiting for the day that you log-on to Eccie and post something...anything positive. Pick any subject. Your Isis persona is constantly negative. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser
I'm sorry you feel that way. But I did in fact post something somewhat positive. I thought the above statement was a darn nice thing to say! Despite the fact that Surcher has been less than gracious to me, I was wishing him happiness.

Chica, tomorrow is a new day! And I shall post something positive. You will see. For you are too right in your observations and thank you for bringing it to my attention. I forget how I am sometimes.
Still Looking kept sending me links to your posts telling me to go read your unbelievable bullshit. I guess those pm's didn't come up. How else would I know you were bashing the men of Eccie in a thread in western NY? Now you want to tell us how Eccie should be in a poem? He chased you and posted behind you all over Eccie and you finally remember you posted you'd call him, over a week ago. He gets your call, after he posts a poem meant to insult you, then he outs people to you and kisses your ass.

Still, you lost all respect from me. I hope it/she was worth it. Keep your new pet, but don't pm me about her again. I gave her BS more than it deserved, thanks to you.

Sorry Isis, I wasn't your stalker. Yet, according to Still, who was, the women you claimed backed you, were the majority of your detractors. That would say something to a normal person, however, normal isn't you.

Surcher out! Originally Posted by surcher
Lots of people back me, but I never reveal who they are because they are here to run a business and I understand if I tell anyone they agree with me, it will hurt their business. I get "right on" emails all the time. I never told Still Looking who my backers were. As far as the detractors, detractors from what? You mean the hungry hounds who PM'd SL begging for the $2500 that he offered me?? LOL, puhleeze I never took the offer to heart. More power to the detractors! They can have it. I don't need to beg anyone for 2500, I could make that fairly quickly when I work. If SL gains my full trust in the future, I will meet the man for FREE. I'm not a vulcher.

Surcher, your a smart guy. I just realized I just hijacked my own thread. I'm doing what I don't want Eccie to be. A bashing fest.
Still Looking's Avatar
Teach me to go have dinner with an ATF. Sounds like I missed all the fun.

In regard to Stalking: You can call it what ever you want. If I see an avatar I like, or grow to appreciate the posts of a provider, that’s my deal. I'm not sure why that is an issue for any one. Apparently some people have nothing better to do than cruise the threads / posts and start problems. Hey install an ignore button!

In regard to negativity: ISIS is negative? No shit! I would be negative too if I had to deal with some of the ass wipe douche bags out there! Life is hard enough as it is, then having some one relentlessly giving you shit... Hummmm. Were all different and we certainly don't always agree, but do we need to launch the personal attacks? Once again, install the ignore button!

In regard to being here incognito: Why is that such a big deal? Hell were all here incognito. Some more open than others. This is a social network. Reap its benefits and discard the rest. How about a little less drama and lets let the mods spend a little more time hobbying and a little less time playing refereeing to a game of insults, slander and stupidity. Once again, your ignore button is invaluable!

In regard to PM’S: I received Pm’s from ISIS. I received PM’s from SURCHER. I also received PM’S and emails from providers and hobbyist a like weighing in. The only one talking about “Private PM’S is you Surcher! So who’s outing who? I wouldn’t stoop to publicly posting private informational exchanges. Perhaps you could do the same. While you are not copying and pasting them, referring to them is just as insulting. And for what… to prove your point? Your better than that, raise the bar a bit for yourself!

In regard to being Nice & Humorous: If you don’t like me… hey I understand. If you don’t think my posts are humorous, once again, I understand. But let’s stop the personal attacks. Reference ignore button!

In regard to the saga:

Still Looking kept sending me links to your posts telling me to go read your unbelievable bullshit. I guess those pm's didn't come up. How else would I know you were bashing the men of Eccie in a thread in western NY? Now you want to tell us how Eccie should be in a poem? He chased you and posted behind you all over Eccie and you finally remember you posted you'd call him, over a week ago. He gets your call, after he posts a poem meant to insult you, then he outs people to you and kisses your ass.

Surcher you PM'd me. I wouldn't know you if you bit my ass. And yes I PM'd you. And yes I communicated about my quest to meet ISIS. Why is that a problem for you?

Still, you lost all respect from me. I hope it/she was worth it. Keep your new pet, but don't pm me about her again. I gave her BS more than it deserved, thanks to you.

Your right, you have most certainly given out your share of BS! ISIS is not a pet, she is a member just like you and me! We both questioned if in fact ISIS looks like Gia. I dealt with it one way, you another. Why the personal attack? And if someone does not agree with you then you turn on them? It’s obvious and transparent what’s going on here!

Sorry Isis, I wasn't your stalker. Yet, according to Still, who was, the women you claimed backed you, were the majority of your detractors. That would say something to a normal person, however, normal isn't you.

Read your post again, and try to imagine some one coming after you this way? How would you like it! Sadly it would appear you might welcome that interaction. I for one say choose your battles wisely. If its adversity and controversy are what you want, keep an eye out for the postings of some other members. They would love to mix it up with you! Mean while if you only interest is giving nice people shit, well it’s been done before.

Surcher out!

We can only hope! Best of luck Surcher, sounds like you’ll need it!

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Originally Posted by surcher
Sorry it went over your head. Logic and comprehension must not be your strong suit.
Please do not resort to personal insults.
Eccie Addict's Avatar
First off..... SL nobod "has" to put up with the bs of the men they meet in this business. They choose to be here. If I was in a business that changed me as a person in a way that I didn't like then I would do something else......
Still Looking, thank you for your input. To anyone else who says I'm negative, ok maybe I am. But I am amongst some pretty angry people here, it seems most here are filled with RAGE. It's scary. I'm beginning to understand why I decided to come here incognito and not as a provider. With all the men filled with rage here, it was a wise choice on my part.
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As you once said isis...... Just because your posts come across as angry doesn't mean you are
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is it just me or does Iris seem to be try to rub all of our faces in the fact she is here "Incognito"? Seems a little smug to me as well. Hell 99% of us here are here "incognito" to some point of another. Just my opinion.

Best of luck to you Iris if your endeavors, as EA said if this business is something that you dislike so much and have so many issues with, then find something else to do.
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First off..... SL nobod "has" to put up with the bs of the men they meet in this business. They choose to be here. If I was in a business that changed me as a person in a way that I didn't like then I would do something else...... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict


And if that ever happens that’s exactly what you should do! But we need to respect or at least allow others they're own opinions and feelings don't you think?

The issue at hand is launching a relentless personal attack because you don't agree with some one! Even then that’s not good enough. If some one sides with the other person then they get attacked also? I've read your posts, and you have been around a while, surely you don't support that kind of conduct! Every one has the right to do as they wish. Seems pretty easy to move the mouse up to the RED X in the upper right corner and click, but obviously challenging for some! ISIS is here incognito.. so what? She has contradicted herself in her posts... really who hasn't? She looks like Gia? Maybe she does maybe she doesn't! Who cares? She took the time to draft and post a poem. I plagiarized one and posted it! Who really gives a dam? Your a respected valued poster Mr. Addict. I hope you have a great day! For now I'm going to hit that RED X and meet my daughter for lunch.

I have always felt sorry for the helpless, but the clueless can kiss my ass!



surcher's Avatar
[QUOTE=Still Looking;1354467]Teach me to go have dinner with an ATF. Sounds like I missed all the fun.

In regard to Stalking: You can call it what ever you want. If I see an avatar I like, or grow to appreciate the posts of a provider, that’s my deal. I'm not sure why that is an issue for any one. Apparently some people have nothing better to do than cruise the threads / posts and start problems. Hey install an ignore button![QUOTE]

You grew to appreciate her posts? That's new up to yesterday. You had a problem with her and went after her in your own way, using sarcasm and backhanded humor, like the "WANTED" posts and the poem. She asked why I was following her and I told her I wasn't. You told her about what people were saying about her in pm's to you and she posted it, letting everyone know she now knew. That was blatantly throwing it in their faces and laughing at them. How do you think those people feel about you telling her what they confided in you? After that, my telling her you were the one following her and sending me the links to her posts was being honest. You opened that door.

[QUOTE=Still Looking;1354467]In regard to negativity: ISIS is negative? No shit! I would be negative too if I had to deal with some of the ass wipe douche bags out there! Life is hard enough as it is, then having some one relentlessly giving you shit... Hummmm. Were all different and we certainly don't always agree, but do we need to launch the personal attacks? Once again, install the ignore button![QUOTE]

"Life is hard enough as it is, then having some one relentlessly giving you shit..." Seriously, that's funny! There's a difference between giving someone shit, "relentlessly," LOL,
and calling them out on bullshit. I find all her negative posts and bullshit inexcusable. Dealing with douche bags and assholes is part of what you sign up for when you choose to become a provider. I don't see other women doing hit and run negative posting like her and she's doing it incognito. No, we all aren't incognito here, especially providers. People have handles, yet they are known to others, providers and other hobbyists. No one here knows who she is and because of it she posts whatever she wants. Usually it's negative or BS and people have a problem with her in direct response to what she chooses to post
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[QUOTE=Still Looking;1354467]
In regard to PM’S: I received Pm’s from ISIS. I received PM’s from SURCHER. I also received PM’S and emails from providers and hobbyist a like weighing in. The only one talking about “Private PM’S is you Surcher! So who’s outing who? I wouldn’t stoop to publicly posting private informational exchanges. Perhaps you could do the same. While you are not copying and pasting them, referring to them is just as insulting. And for what… to prove your point? Your better than that, raise the bar a bit for yourself![QUOTE]

You might want to rethink this statement. I addressed it above, but will let Isis address my pm's and others from two threads.


By the way Darling Surcher, I just talked with Still Looking for over an hour. I'm sure now your going to be PM'ing him non stop about me like you've ben doing. Originally Posted by incognito isis
I'm guessing you didn't tell her most of my pm's were replies to yours, nor the content of yours. I didn't out your pm's to anyone regarding what you said to me about her in pm's. You and I both know many of your posts and pm's pre and post phone call are hypocritical. You, on the other hand, obviously had no trouble telling her what I said. Were you playing white knight? When I saw her spouting bullshit or attacking the men here on the board, I had no problem calling her on it. Like this http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...3&postcount=41 and this little one liner having your back http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...7&postcount=52

STILL LOOKING: FINALLY MY DARLING WE GOT TO CHIT CHAT ON THE PHONE. YOU ARE ONE FUNNY FELLA. I KNOW NOW YOUR PM'S ARE GUNNA BE LIGHTING UP BECAUSE, ENQUIRING MINDS WANT TO KNOW ABOUT THE ENIGMATIC INCOGNITOOOOOOOOOOOOO ISIS

I MUST ADMIT DARLING, MY EGO WAS A LITTLE STROKED WHEN I FOUND OUT ALL THESE PEOPLE HAVE BEEN PM'ING YOU ABOUT ME

I guess I'm just the girl everyone loves to hate.

I don't see you having a problem with this. All those people might.



[QUOTE=Still Looking;1354467]In regard to being Nice & Humorous: If you don’t like me… hey I understand. If you don’t think my posts are humorous, once again, I understand. But let’s stop the personal attacks. Reference ignore button!

In regard to the saga:[QUOTE]

Some of your posts are humorous and a few meant to be not so much, but I have no problem with that. When have I personally attacked you. If saying I lost respect for you is a personal attack then I'm guilty. I lost respect for you because in your conversation you told her what people said to you in the confidence of pm's (white knight activity), and she immediately made a point of letting everyone know and you seem to think that's ok.



[QUOTE=Still Looking;1354467]Surcher you PM'd me. I wouldn't know you if you bit my ass. And yes I PM'd you. And yes I communicated about my quest to meet ISIS. Why is that a problem for you?[QUOTE]

Everyone who saw your posts knew of your quest, me more than others. I had no problem with that, I had a problem with her BS as did you. While you were telling her about my pm's, and others, did you mention what you had to say about her? Judging from her posts, that would be a "No."


[QUOTE=Still Looking;1354467]Your right, you have most certainly given out your share of BS! ISIS is not a pet, she is a member just like you and me! We both questioned if in fact ISIS looks like Gia. I dealt with it one way, you another. Why the personal attack? And if someone does not agree with you then you turn on them? It’s obvious and transparent what’s going on here![QUOTE]

I apologize, I should not have called her your pet. That was uncalled for. This has nothing to do with agreeing with you, it's all about outing people to her, her throwing it out to everyone and that's ok with you. Also, the hypocricy of what you've posted and pm'd to becoming her white knight after one phone call.


[QUOTE=Still Looking;1354467]Read your post again, and try to imagine some one coming after you this way? How would you like it! Sadly it would appear you might welcome that interaction. I for one say choose your battles wisely. If its adversity and controversy are what you want, keep an eye out for the postings of some other members. They would love to mix it up with you! Mean while if you only interest is giving nice people shit, well it’s been done before.[QUOTE]

If I outed peoples pm's to a provider and she let everyone know I did it, and laughed about it, I would expect flame throwers to come out of the woodwork, especially those I outed. However, that wouldn't happen cause I wouldn't do it.
Still Looking: I forgive you for any bad things you said about me to anyone else. I understand I can be negative sometimes. I understand I'm rough around the edges. Sometimes I deserve being put in my place, sometimes I don't. If any compaints came from a nice fella like you, then I must have been in the wrong, because, sir, you are no sadist or Drama Devil. I accept the fact you disagree with my views sometimes. It doesn't ruffle my feathers because I'm a well rounded individual (most of the time) who accepts everyones right to have an opinion. So whatever you said, good, bad or nuetral, I'm sure it was in good faith and coming from a valid point, not RAGE