Are these little things worth it or make it or break it matter? Or do I just need to loosen up?

Those little things are definitely missing from the hobby lately. Seems to me that class level has dropped and we could use more classy providers Originally Posted by Drtry1

Totally agree. When I book a date for $$ or $$$ for an hour Im looking for class. Might be all over the place sexually, but the fun is in the 6" between the ears