Why not schedule with her and find out??
Or since you wanted to know from women before you meet them, just ask them to provide details of what they prefer in your initial contact.
Originally Posted by tia travels
it really isn't about "me" wanting to know specific information about a specific provider as a pre-appointment thing. It is about wanting to see how several providers like it done and then me trying to draw conclusions from their preferences that might help me improve my technique. Are there certain things that seem to be universally enjoyed? I have been told I am actually quite good at it by many ladies, but as a perfectionist I believe there is always room for improvement. Also, my style once perfected has been relatively the same for 30 years and it is always fun to add a twist or to try something different.
It is funny, guys seem to have very specific ideas about how ladies should handle the schlong, and give detailed responses in each and every thread on the subject. Very rarely do you see "ask the guy what he likes", and the girls seem to be more tight lipped about what pleases them. Now, I am wondering ...
1) if they aren't really sure what they like until it happens to them or
2) they don't really have a specific plan like guys do and are more "go with the flow" oriented and direct based on the individual and not a standard preference, or
3) maybe they are just not as talkative about it as guys tend to be when asked (i.e. it's a very personal subject, it is too intimate a question or something along those lines)?