(sorry still learning this IPAD).
The board is what you make it. There have been times I've had to step away for a bit because it has gotten to me. That's fine. At the end of the day I'm in charge of contributing what I want to see and talk about. Or. . . I can take my marbles and go home and play by myself.
Either way, if I put up or shut up, I'm just as responsible as everyone else for the condition of the board I dislike so much that happens to be a great benefit to me.