I'm skirting the lines with one right now. Before I left for this deployment I was seeing her weekly. The week leading up to my departure, I think I saw her 3 or 4 times, no charge, and one of which wasn't even sexual...just hanging out drinking. That last time I saw her was a totally different experience...afterwards she hugged me and told me she was really going to miss me.
I shook it off like "WTF ever" in my head but since I have been gone she has kept in touch with me on a regular basis--even mailed me a car package. I guess I will see what happens when i get back