Yeah, I understand you and what you're expressing.
These days I prefer the provider version of what you described. I request a ladies time mainly based on her skills. Now, good looks and skills, that's just a bonus and there's a whole bunch of those in here.
Most often, a provider doesn't just walk into eccie and set the world on fire unless she's got some experience from somewhere.
Doubt I'll request from a lady 30 or under again.
Yeah ! Milf's are great.