I was there for 20min tops, only asked for BnG and was never told fee. I gathered from other reviews and ad.
Originally Posted by Casper78
Perhaps you're new to the hobby, or perhaps you're just inconsiderate. I won't venture to make an assumption on that. Donations are not based on how long you stay, but on the amount of time you schedule. When you schedule an appointment, you make the provider unavailable to other gentlemen for that time frame, as well as for a period of time prior to and following your session. You shouldn't have to be "told" a fee, especially by someone with a reputation like Crystal's. Review her website and her latest ad, and it's easy to find the appropriate donation for the session you're requesting. If there is any question, confirm
before scheduling the session. You should never rely on reviews to confirm a donation amount, because hobbyists enter incorrect donation amounts or exaggerate session times on reviews all the time - I've seen it on a few of my own reviews, and every time it happens, I have to deal with the repercussions. That does not make me happy, at all. I can't imagine how angry Crystal must be with you.
I had the req. rate but offered 20 less, which was accepted.
Originally Posted by Casper78
What the... ?! You had the requested rate but offered 20 less? Did her incall look like a Mexican flea market to you? Of course she's going to agree - you're already at her incall, know what she looks like, and she has no idea what you'll say or do if she refuses. Apparently you're just one of those people who likes to take advantage of someone who is too nice to stop you.
SHAME ON YOU.
I was wrong by posting the much lower fee, which I do feel bad about. I was mixed up, but thats it.
Originally Posted by Casper78
If it was wrong, and you feel bad about it, then I'm just going to assume you've already fixed it.
I don't feel it's wrong to haggle on arrival but then again I've never put myself in the others shoes. I can image her feeling pressured to accept and that's not cool.
Originally Posted by Casper78
Haggling is never appreciated by providers, period. Especially not after the provider has blocked off a certain amount of time for you, and you are already at her doorstep. She could have booked a session with a gentleman willing to pay her full hourly rate, and treat her with respect. Instead, she ended up with you, treating her like a bargain-basement sale item. I'm fairly certain you would feel it was wrong if your boss attempted to haggle with you right before handing you your paycheck.
it's not something I feel sorry for, but maybe shouldnt do.
Originally Posted by Casper78
That's absolutely disgusting to me. Are you under the impression that providers have no feelings? Clearly, you have some serious issues with boundaries, respect and basic common sense.