Well, that’s not always true, but it’s hard to know based on short sessions that are based on fantasy. There might be more. It’s happened before successfully, but the OP’s situation is a very long shot. Originally Posted by B ThreeI Think I might have said it somewhat vague, but the sessions are usually fr 2-3 hours and they tend to go over 30 mins, and she’s never once voiced any issue with it even when I’ve tried to compensate her for the time. Usually goes over due to us talking, which is how the majority of our meetings have been going. I’m planning on stopping the hobby soon, just felt like it was worth a shot considering that we both seem to genuinely enjoy each other’s company as well as there feeling a connection( which again I’m not oblivious to the fact that I pay her to make me feel wanted.)
Try taking her out in some paid longer dates and see how that goes first. Then try an overnight or short trip. If you’re only seeing her for 30-60 min, you dont really know her. If all goes well, then see what happens. Originally Posted by B Three
The only thing I'm going to say.. If you want to take her on a date and lets say you want 2 hours of her time... Pay her 2 hour rate. Originally Posted by TheGentleman56
Right thing to do.... Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF
Don't do it. Providers don't care about you. They just want your money. Originally Posted by jonrbbcBingo!
So I’m aware there’s about a million of these, but I wanna really illustrate the whole situation clearly. Ive been meeting a provider for a while now, and long story short I want to ask her out on a proper date and really start getting to know each other.
For starters, and most importantly, I’m not under any delusions of what it is she does for a living, nor am I unaware of how our relationship to one another started. I’m not looking to “save” her from what she does, in fact it’s something I’m quite secure about. And I’m not looking to wife her up or even anything serious.
I understand that, especially w GFE girls, it can almost be impossible to differentiate between a provider expressing real interest in you if she’s just really good at what she does (usually the latter.) my perspective on our situation is a bit different. Conversation is wonderful, we have a ton of important things in common, and our meetings seem to go over 30 mins, sometimes an hour without any complaint. What really gets me is that she’s adamant about no contact that isn’t related to setting up meetings, but the two of us keep in contact w each other frequently texting without any mention of scheduling meetings.
Sorry this is so long, but I just wanna hear some folks opinions my wanting to take this relationship outside the hobby. Again I’m not trying to get her to quit and it’s not some scheme to win free sex, just my want to take her out on a date and see where it goes from there, I plan on treating her like a human as I have from the beginning. Would love to hear provider input on how I should go about this, or even if I should haha. Thank you if you read this whole thing Originally Posted by MJ9880
Also, be totally honest with yourself. Do you seem like someone she’d date in the real world? Originally Posted by B ThreeThat's really the only reason I'm thinking about asking her. I really didn't intend on trying to build a relationship with a provider, but I feel like this is something I want to at least try I just don't really know how to go about that. Even if it means just being friends, I'm not trying to marry anybody.
Most have an impossible time adjusting to the real world, with less freedom, stricter schedules. daily requirements. They have a hard time holding a real job. Originally Posted by VitaManThis isn't her main source of income, she's got a full time job. I've withheld some info bc I didn't want to spread too much of her business.
Good luck with that! You are going to need that to pick yourself off the ground when you are in pieces. Originally Posted by Max_Tubing_Pressurethank you for the empathy
Try taking her out in some paid longer dates and see how that goes first. Then try an overnight or short trip. If you’re only seeing her for 30-60 min, you dont really know her. If all goes well, then see what happens. Originally Posted by B ThreeThe guy knows all the pitfalls that the rest of us guys have to advise. Best advice, I would think, is like what is quoted here. Certainly the provider and a woman’s perspective rather than all the mongruls and worthy of consideration.