Condoms: I need advice...

Old Horn Dog's Avatar
... or I could've subbed in for him, since I'm always offered Magnums & they're hilariously wrong for someone of as, ahem, modest proportions as myself. In this situation if someone can use only one kind, it's not your fault you're not a damn mind-reader.

In general I'm of two minds: normally the kind the provider uses is fine. But ON OCCASION I get a girl who uses something that feels like it's several inches thick. W/Magnums the problem isn't that it's too thick for me--sensation is fine. The ones in the yellow Trojan pack seem to be good, there's LifeStyles kind that one girl in particular uses that I find is pretty good, and I'm interested in finding out more about these ultra-thin ones that someone mentioned. Also I had a girl use something called "Skyns" or "Skynz" on me that felt pretty good.
LA Man's Avatar
LL and MM with an assortment of brands do you reach in and use what comes out or use ones you prefer first then use the rest until another shipment comes in?
LA Man, I cater to each individual.
I'm going to have to agree with the consensus. This is on him. If he needs a certain brand, he should provide it. We shouldn't expect providers to be mind readers as well.
No La, I look to size him up. and then If he is a Magnum kind of a guy, then I use those, if he is a regular guy with no Lg. size, I use those... But I keep a wide assortment for those who are picky....

I just like to order things I would need for my hobby on line, because it is cheaper, and it is much easier than burning gas to go buy some..

M.M.
lanaughtyboy's Avatar
I always bring my own. Plus things I might need.
The ones that are too tight can definitely hinder sensation. That said, if you are so damn picky as to only want one particular kind, then as stated above, either you bring your own shit, or you make damn sure you request it before hand.
I'll take the blame, as I did via text with you Bunni. It definitely was my fault to not have my own condoms there with me.

To set the record straight however, it was never a thing about only being able to use one kind of condom. In fact, latex condoms in general were not provided for personal reasons, which is perfectly fine.

Initially, I thought since I didn't get full service, I should have gotten a partial refund. That's true. However, shortly thereafter, I did clear that up by saying you don't owe me any refund. I also said "no thanks" as to seeing me free of charge next time because I do believe it was partially my fault as well as the reasons I discussed with you privately.

Once again, there's no doubt, I was in the wrong. I did want to clear up those facts. Once again, it was not that I am only able to use one condom, I just can't use suffocating condoms. Furthermore, you only provide skin condoms. I apologize for any ill feelings you have towards me Bunni from this interaction. I did apologize to you privately and I hope things are resolved.
I think you learned a valuable lesson, westcoast_greg: BYOC!

Oh, and watch out for those nasty "Refund Gaps!"
gimme_that's Avatar
Is this a closeted NBA thread maybe............

Johnny Cockaran......if it don't fit.....she gets to quit.

I always bring my own. Providers sometimes are cheap with the condoms they use an or my frequency for switching them. Ill invest what I need to protect myself.
sex instructor's Avatar
They were not the brand the guy uses... He can ONLY use one specific brand.. My thinking is he should have brought them with him... Originally Posted by BunniIsBack
THIS
When I go to work I ALWAYS bring my own tools. Condoms, whips, chains, oils everything a guy needs to put in WORK!
Arverni's Avatar
Sagami .002

Get the large size - even if you're average. They're made in Asia and tend to run small. I have no problem getting into these though.

They're ultra-thin, and made of polyurethane.

They transfer heat - INSTANTLY. You really don't know what you're missing until you try these.

I have never had one break - unless it broke when I put it on initially. They are thin and can roll on themselves and will break if you get too much in a hurry putting them on. But who cares if they break putting them on? Grab another.

Not cheap. About $16 bucks on Amazon for a pack of 12 ... but I think WELL worth it.

They make a WORLD of difference and seriously feel like you're wearing nothing. The polyurethane supposedly stronger than latex - it has no latex smell like those nasty Trojans do.
Karrine_Kream's Avatar
That's a rough one...honestly I think he should have made you aware of it... 95% of the time I always have them...although I hate the smell of that yuki spermicide lol

Being low volume I've started to get the 3packs of everything. It's more expensive but works for me. Plus I won't have condoms all over the place (awkward)

It's a good way to keep up with what you have and need

I think it was an excuse though.