You MUST research and trust the provider, but we all have to take a chance to get to know someone. Us providers do with the men we see everyday.
I would avoid outcall to your home if you are married for sure.
If you are not married, I would still suggest avoiding it unless you are seeing a lady you trust and have known a while....even then a lot of guys would suggest avoiding it.
DO NOT in either case get suckered into renting the room and then letting her use it. Originally Posted by NYr