Guys do you do this and ladies does it bother you?

I might email (or text) her after the session letting her know that I had a wonderful time and then will contact her only to schedule a session.

Sometimes A, Sometimes B, Sometimes C, Sometimes D, Sometimes E and Sometimes F (ask her out on a date)

ride, review, repeat.

resked, go back and spend more $$; that always works well for me.

Essence,

What the heck was your contribution all about? It has NOTHING to do with the thread that Venus started.

my bad

My mama raised a gentleman. When I see a lady late in the evening, I ask her to text me so I know she got home okay. And I usually text back letting her know I enjoyed our time together.

What can I say? The endorphins fire off in my brain and for a little while afterward, I feel blissfully relaxed. That is why I think some sort regular companionship is good for the soul.

b.) text her to say hi sexy thinking about u

c.) email her to let her know you where thinking about her

I do it (via txt/PM) with my regulars/ATFs, only if they are OK with it, and not all the time ... I understand their lives may be a bit too hectic sometimes and don't want to become an nuisance to them.

Likewise, I enjoy receiving some messages from them from time to time, but can't really stand when a girl gets overly clingy and contacts me way too frequently.

If a guy can still focus enough to type a text message... she didn't do her job well enough...

If a guy can still focus enough to type a text message... she didn't do her job well enough... Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

LOL... sending a message right away seems wrong.

I normally don't txt/PM right after a playdate... a day or two later and I think a "thanks, had a great time!" type of note is happily welcomed by many providers.

LOL... sending a message right away seems wrong.

I normally don't txt/PM right after a playdate... a day or two later and I think a "thanks, had a great time!" type of note is happily welcomed by many providers. Originally Posted by Diabolo

It's all relative... but point taken. If I enjoyed myself as much as I thought I would, or more, then I try to get it done w/in 12-24 hrs. That's just good manners.

It doesn't have to be elaborate. Just a quick word to say,

"Hey! Thanks for being the stupid smile on my face that NO ONE understands! Would love to run it back whenever our collective circumstances allow."

I love getting a text or email. I also send thank you's generally right away, because I don't keep the info either.

I don't do it often, but I have both phone and e-mailed.

I only do it if felt we were both relaxed and had a much better then average experience.

My mama raised a gentleman.

Originally Posted by cpi3000

My mama raised a manwhore...............I'm already moving on to the next fantasy.

Me personally unlike to recieve texts and emails or even phone calls especially dirty ones and I like to send them. Being a single with no SO or kids it's not a risk for me unless you get one of those multiple personality type providers who the you are theirs and theirs alone which unfortunately I have had before. However if the person I am sending those to or calling doesn't like that I have absolutely no problem respecting that. Most of the time if a hobbyist does this the provider doesn't say anything out of fear of losing them or hurting feelings and then when they finally get fed they get mad and say something. As the saying goes you can't change something unless you know about it. Ladies just communicate . If we all just respect each others boundaries whatever they may be then we will all have a great time. Also I like pics as well ladies I wanted to stress ladies there cause I know quite a few of you guys on here have a bell of a good sense of humor and would be happy to send pics that would probably make me throw up lol. That's my 2 cents worth.