Swingers Clubs/parties

Serious is that the only criteria? Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

no, that is not all but its the gist of it..,, trust me its not as easy as you think it is. having 20-30 people watching you fuk a total stranger is a turn on yet its pressure packed if you do not perform you will NOT BE INVITED BACK.. That I know is fact.

I've enjoyed my times at one. I love a crowd.

take everything you've read so far [including my comments] with a grain or two of salt [just dont rub it into the wound :^]

seriously, being a single male does NOT mean you cannot go. some clubs let single guys in some nites but not other.
not being able to perform [whatever the hell that means] does NOT mean you wont be invited back. if you cant kiss or suck or fuck or daty or digitally explore someone of your choice, then you might not be asked to join in the next time. but that's not the same as not being invited back. here's your chance to learn and practice.

...ralphie - was someone not invited back to the club cos they couldnt do any deed??


if you a) are comfortable w/ your sexuality, b) are a fairly confident person, c) enjoy sexual intimacies w/ others [your date or another woman or man], d) dont mind others watching you getting it on w/ others, e) are respectful [in overall attitude and not continuing when someone says "No"], and f) are not a total asshole or jerk, i think you will be allowed in the first time and subsequent times.

on every visit to the two clubs i've been, i've seen lots of single guys. some were pretty cool, some were kinda creepy, some just watched, and some we asked to join us.

be cool, respectful, and have fun.

not being able to perform.,, well that means you cannot get your cock hard to fuk ..

I do not do clubs, only House parties, and yes if you cannot get your cock hard and fuk the women who want you to, then why would you be invited back??

kinda closed minded since there are lots of other sexual things that can happen between 2 or more people.
but i see your point - no fuk, no return visit.

While I haven't been to clubs, I've been with groups at house parties. They were a lot of fun! The group I played with had been hosting parties for years and were VERY newbie friendly. The parties and the sex was a blast, and as a bonus: I got to fulfill a long-time sexual fantasy of mine.

Specially if they get a bit freak nasty with things.
(meaning - not vanilla)[/QUOTE]

TNTAngie....we think a lot alike....you are on the radar screen

kinda closed minded since there are lots of other sexual things that can happen between 2 or more people.
but i see your point - no fuk, no return visit. Originally Posted by pmdelites

well let me put it this way: you/we Single males are a dime a dozen in the eyes of Swingers. there are 20 guys behinds us begging to be there,now are those 20 guys going to cut the mustard,, ....perhaps...

and you are not there for romance or chatting or knitting or any other thing but to fuk them!!!

I love the lifestyle, and have been fortunate enough to have had a couple of girlfriends who did so as well. It is generally more fun to go accompanied, but I have been as a single guy a couple of times. On those occasions, I found it most helpful to approach the guys in a couple with a polite and tasteful compliment of their lady, and it definitely helps to be a good dancer. Dressing well at clubs is also a key, at least in my experience. House parties seem to be more about chemistry and conversational skills, with humor being a real key.

I really miss Chameloen Club in Phoenix - best swinger club or party I ever attended!

While I haven't been to clubs, I've been with groups at house parties. They were a lot of fun! The group I played with had been hosting parties for years and were VERY newbie friendly. The parties and the sex was a blast, and as a bonus: I got to fulfill a long-time sexual fantasy of mine. Originally Posted by Nikkiforfun

Hi, Nikki! Out of curiosity ... was that group in a different metro area? or in your current metro area?

-- RSRD

Hi, Nikki! Out of curiosity ... was that group in a different metro area? or in your current metro area?

-- RSRD Originally Posted by RunSilent RunDeep

It was in my current area in St. Louis.

I have got to tell you my experience at a swingers club. Oh shoot, I promised Chica I would say nice stuff today! Anyway, I went to a place in NYC with a man when I was still wet behind the ears. I'm sorry, but like everything in life, nothing is as glamourous as it seems. I went to a club called La Trapeze.

http://www.letrapeze.org/

This was a few years ago so maybe things changed. Anyway, the place was gross and dirty. It smelled bad. It's mandatory, you must be naked. I didn't feel comfortable. So I walked around with a towel. This is no Playboy Mansion. The people there were middle aged and overweight. There is a buffet there and naked people up at the buffet, ew. There are different rooms with Indian dudes with what looked like very sad looking spanish girls. I think they were trafficked women. There are people screwing everywhere. You walk into a huge room and there is a mat on the floor and asses in the air going back and forth. The smell of vagina is in the air. I felt dirty being there. I was barefoot and walked around, my feet would step in wet bodily fluids. I worried about any cuts I may have had on my feet (being summer I wear open toe sandals/heels/flip flops alot) and sometimes nick my feet. Anyway, when I got home I poured rubbing alcohol on my feet just in case.

It was in my current area in St. Louis. Originally Posted by Nikkiforfun

Interesting. Thanks!

-- RSRD

I would love for a client to take me to a swingers club for the night! I've been to clubs with friends many times and also have been the unicorn (the rare solo girl) a time or two. Always a great time, especially how crazy people get on the dance floor! What I like about it is having four or ten(!) male and female hands roaming over my body all at once. Depending on the selectivity of the host, private parties have a more attractive crowd.

they can always be great fun if you are a female....no matter your size or age

but for guys,unless you are young/hung/or black,or all three...you are usually SOL Originally Posted by DallasRain

I definitely agree!! Good thing im not SOL when it comes to parties