Issues with Mod

A lot of discussion in this thread, quite frankly, over looks the fact the Moderators are bound by the forum guidelines/Board rules that everyone agrees to that joins this board.


Fact of the matter is most people don't read those rules that they agree to when they join. They make all sorts of assumptions and listen to other members that don't know what they are talking about.




Eccie Forum Guidelines

#18 - Multiple handles are not permitted, unless in certain circumstances are expressly approved by staff in advance on a case-by-case basis. Action will be taken in cases where staff finds multiple handles are being used for deceptive reasons, to carry out an agenda (promotion or trashing of another), or to return to the board following a previous suspension or ban.


#19 - Account security is of the utmost importance. You are responsible for your account and only your account. You are not to allow any other individual access to your account unless you have received prior approval from staff. This will be considered on a case-by-case basis, but must be approved prior to releasing access to another party.



If you are sharing your phone or computer with a new person you are helping. You are to let us know, for if you do not, you will be accused of violating one of the above rules. These are only two of the many rules you didn't read. Sharing of an IP has nothing to do with how we find those that are violating the above rules.


If you feel you are being treated unfairly by your local moderator, you can always contact a different moderator in a different area or contact websupport. Originally Posted by SOULMANIKE

What about when the mods make mistakes? Because there were a few times when that happened and that still hasn't been addressed. It's not fair that a provider has to suffer retaliation just because the moderator feels a certain way. We're adults, you discuss the problem, apologize or agree to disagree, and continue on your day. Yes, I understand that it's a voluntary service that the mods do, but just like the providers are held accountable when they make mistakes so should the mods. Im not going to go into full detail about my situation but I basically feel like since the day I told a mod that he in fact wasn't doing what he was supposed to do and making mistakes as well none of my ads have been posted.. Sounds like retaliation to me....

Sorry that you are having these problems of a similar sort
I recently found out that the same mod I felt I have issues with used to be the SD of this girl who is harrasing me. When I spoke to him the first time the post was taken down to a violation on my end. I have messaged him today about this same girl giving my harassment problems so we can see what will and can be done

What about when the mods make mistakes? Because there were a few times when that happened and that still hasn't been addressed. It's not fair that a provider has to suffer retaliation just because the moderator feels a certain way. We're adults, you discuss the problem, apologize or agree to disagree, and continue on your day. Yes, I understand that it's a voluntary service that the mods do, but just like the providers are held accountable when they make mistakes so should the mods. Im not going to go into full detail about my situation but I basically feel like since the day I told a mod that he in fact wasn't doing what he was supposed to do and making mistakes as well none of my ads have been posted.. Sounds like retaliation to me.... Originally Posted by Alwaysxceptit

Different mods handle things differently.
Some will ban you, some will give you infractions and some will give you warnings.

As long as your ads meet the criteria there shouldn't be an issue with your ad posting.

I know in Oklahoma we have three different mods that do ads.


My suggestion reach out to a female mod in your area. Or a different male Mod.

When I have an issue I go to the Lonestar State and hit up one of the mods that's been around for a long time..

Good luck to you!!!

I recently found out that the same mod I felt I have issues with used to be the SD of this girl who is harrasing me. When I spoke to him the first time the post was taken down to a violation on my end. I have messaged him today about this same girl giving my harassment problems so we can see what will and can be done Originally Posted by southeasternvixen

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