so you know you're a loser when..

I decided against my first comment & erased it after the fact

Those are infractions that everyone has access to. It shows how petty these janitors are. Dont fix the search or incessant popups....just cry about people not respecting your authority enough

so you know you're a loser when..You buy or sell pussy. That's the reality here. There isn't any winners here. It's still a lot of fun

Well, it's amusing when I have to remind some of you about guidelines.

so you know you're a loser when..You buy or sell pussy. That's the reality here. There isn't any winners here. It's still a lot of fun Originally Posted by BLM69

i dunno. say you're a celebrity. would you rather fuck with a pro or a civvie who's gonna be blowin up your phone just cause you did a 1-night stand?

also convenience. how much bs is there in dating? it's basically a giant clusterfuck.

and what about just settling down? well to me that looks boring af.

how bout just knowing what you want and just going for it? quality women are the ones you least want to fuck over just for a piece of ass cause it's bad karma. and who wants a gold digger or a scammer? you don't even want those gals inside your house.

money-wise? every hot civvie i've ever dated cost more than just hobbying.

i hear where you're coming from but i don't fully agree.

do pornstars have it better than hobbyists? maybe, but not necessarily. that's why i posted that thread comparing the two. and what about female providers vs. female pornstars vs. both?

so you know you're a loser when..You buy or sell pussy. That's the reality here. There isn't any winners here. It's still a lot of fun Originally Posted by BLM69

He said it right. There are absolutely no winners or losers. One party is selling pussy one part is buying pussy. No one thought or wanted this growing up. So let's just love on each other. Honestly we all lost once we got wind of this business. Most women dont make it out sane and most guys lose their family and wife. We are just trying

^^wow what a happy thought!

well if ur single that aint a thing.

and the hobby is good for some shit. fucking incel prevention..

mad at women cause you cant get some? hobby got a fix for that.

shy guys who have no balls? knowin you're gonna get exactly what you want is a fix for that. it aint hard to hit up a gal you like after you just got a fucking pse bj.

if you're that negative about the hobby, you just straight up shouldn't partake. i know the pros i listed are from the guys' angle, but i'm sure there are a good number of pros for the gals too.

is it something you should put on your resume or bumper sticker? prolly no. but it's pretty funny to be, for your age, in the 99.9th percentile for gals you "knew biblically." and that's just me with my lousy 54 reviews. i had long stretches when i saw a different gal every nite. that makes some guys jealous, although i don't consider it a big deal. so no, i aint puttin that shit on my resume lol. but the hobby aint all bad or just some place where addicts go to flame out and wreck their lives.

does it take some self control? course. can you tell me one fun thing in life that doesn't? think of the 7 deadly sins. addiction to anything is bad news.

Wait. I shouldn’t be putting this on my resume? No wonder sleepy creepy Joe has to feed me the govt cheese n crackers. Let me go get some white out.

For the younger crowd:

http://www.walmart.com/ip/BIC-Wite-O...dSellerId=7122

I still remember introducing a friend of mine to the AMP scene.. we were at a strip club (his choice of place to meet) and he was spending $$$ and only getting teased.. me I was keeping it at a slower pace.. like for every lapdance I got, he would get 4.. the girl I was with was cool with that.

After we left he mentioned he should have gotten laid for the amount of $$$ he spent. Told him to follow me to a place.

We went to an AMP which at the time was not well known but the girls would rock your world 9 ways from Sunday. Went in, he picked a girl, I got one of my favs (had 3 there that I loved) and we dis-appeared into separate rooms.

As we left and went to our cars I told him I was hungry so we hit a Denny's (24 hour food) and he asked me how long have I known about this place and told him for a couple of years. The money you spend at a strip club can be better spent at these places.

AMPS are or were efficient in that manner, you drive to it, go in - pick a girl (or the one that lets you in is what you get), go to a room, get a massage, BJ and FS. The best ones have some form of shower room where you can freshen up or they bring in those hot towels and freshen you up in the room.

You leave and go home.. round trip including time at spa 90-120 minutes depending travel time.

an independent takes more scheduling but there is no guess work as to what will happen as long as she states the do's and don'ts-- no hidden fees etc...

i dunno. say you're a celebrity. would you rather fuck with a pro or a civvie who's gonna be blowin up your phone just cause you did a 1-night stand?

also convenience. how much bs is there in dating? it's basically a giant clusterfuck.

and what about just settling down? well to me that looks boring af.

how bout just knowing what you want and just going for it? quality women are the ones you least want to fuck over just for a piece of ass cause it's bad karma. and who wants a gold digger or a scammer? you don't even want those gals inside your house.

money-wise? every hot civvie i've ever dated cost more than just hobbying.

i hear where you're coming from but i don't fully agree.

do pornstars have it better than hobbyists? maybe, but not necessarily. that's why i posted that thread comparing the two. and what about female providers vs. female pornstars vs. both? Originally Posted by pxmcc

I agree with everything you said, I saw a guy being checked by his woman in a hallway with dozens of people walking by, I stopped and was thinking of telling him to Man up and not be a pussy, she kept going on and on about some nonsense. Those are the times I enjoy being single

you jack off to playboy pics..of 7 of 9..

you decide to release some aggression with your battle axe on your hoa's toxic mold-ridden shrubs that they don't even bother to prune, when..you miss a branch and clip your own leg..
ouch..

so you know you're a loser when..You buy or sell pussy. That's the reality here. There isn't any winners here. It's still a lot of fun Originally Posted by BLM69

Guys seeking out providers to get laid without the hassle of trying to meet someone in a bar and all that drama.

The ladies have figured out that this is a more straightforward transaction. No risk of getting a drink spiked or dealing with drama from the guy, and most likely they love sex so why not make some coin doing what they enjoy? Not to mention look at the variety of penis's they get to see and enjoy?

So over all the "client/provider" arrangement is both efficient and beneficial to both.

Besides, who in this 24x7 world has time to truly DATE? Most jobs want you there 9+ hours a day, your commute to and from work eats time, you get home to unwind, eat, shower and then what?

I have a life rule called "The Rule of 168"
I have an excel spreadsheet that lists the days in columns and activities in the rows. I chart how much time I spent doing each activity rounded up/down to the nearest 15 minute mark (so I can use .25 to represent 1/4 hour for the spreadsheet)

You only have 168 hours in a week (hence the name) 24 x 7 = 168

you subtract each day's activities from 24 and from the over all total of 168.. what remains each day is "free time".

Now once you get into an established routine that does not vary much you can move a few things around to free up more time on ___ day so you have more free time then.

I don't maintain this list as I used to but once I saw what I was doing, for how long and when I could shuffle things a bit and when I was working (still looking for a job, I do I.T. Work) I had things lined out so when I got home on Friday I had the entire weekend to do whatever.

But arranging a meeting with a provider is beneficial.. heck if you are lucky and there is a GOOD quality AMP close to where you work suddenly you are taking a longer lunch but staying 1 hour later to get the work done but oddly AFTER your "Lunch" you are all recharged.

At some jobs I have worked I would look for AMP's or my favorite ladies that were near the job or on the way home and try to arrange a Friday after work visit. Great way to kick off the weekend

You know you’re a loser when you purposely get yourself banned just to use another handle

You know you’re a loser when you purposely get yourself banned just to use another handle Originally Posted by Cendell M

Good morning beautiful. People can only get one handle. Once it's banned it's no way for them to get another one so I don't think that applies to this thread. Again, no one is a loser in my opinion. Everyone has value.