Ladies! A observation that could be risky!

HAAAA. I was actually picking Lindsay up for late lunch one day and there was a gentleman sitting in the car waiting patiently. He was there when I arrived, he was there when we got in the car to leave. He was parked right next to me. Very high end sports car, Lindsay and I both snickered and caught him peeking at us when we were not looking. Of course we were both discreetly trying to figure out if we had seen him before.

Another time we were leaving and a gentleman was walking in to see someone else, we kept walking. He of course said "Hey how are you. It's been awhile".

I have felt paranoid of this several times when scheduling with a lady the first time. It is followed by internal panic of finding the correct unit without walking in the wrong direction and finally worries about knocking on the wrong door!! (I know that will never be misconstrued in this room!) WTF?

I'm sure. I see it all day long. My window faces the parking. I have had Many clients show up early and want to just sit and wait. I politely ask if they can go drive around the block or sit at the store till the booked time. If I'm ready sooner, I let them know.

Again, I'm not trying to be bitchy....just pointing out something that needs to be addressed. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

Thanks for the reminder Lindsay Lee. Discretion in this hobby should always be held with the utmost regard and respect.

It's always a good idea to not draw too much attention to yourself, or others for that matter!

I'm just always hoping that I can get my bus pass validated.

I just saw Laura Lynn's pic, and didn't read anything. My mind went blank!

Hey, I've been told that you should masturbate before an appointment. If you get there early with nothing to do you can sit outside gramma's living room window and spank it while you wait. Surely if you are involved in some recreational physical activity you won't be too conspicuous!

Or stay low volume - and this problem won't exist. Space appointments out or reschedule. If you are meant to meet, you will.

To the men......If you do not want to draw attention to yourself, don't sit and wait in the car. If your early, go to the store and wait in the parking lot. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

You'd think people wouldn't need to be told this! The very first time I saw a provider I arrived early, so I drove around until I found an office parking lot, parked in a far corner and texted the lady to let her know I was early and waiting down the street and to let me know when she was ready. It just seemed like the right thing to do. Seems like anyone with the IQ of a rock would know that no provider wants him camped out on her doorstep.

Not be told? Damn, this is Dallas Coed where remember to wipe your ass and take a shower are weekly threads!

Not be told? Damn, this is Dallas Coed where remember to wipe your ass and take a shower are weekly threads! Originally Posted by phildo

ROTFLOL! Touche', well played my friend

Eva, I think you may have misunderstood the thread. It's not a 'volume' thing... It's when there are multiple providers seeing clients. I'm very low volume. It also just doesn't look good to sit in the car at a condo or apartment community. It just draws unwanted attention. Doesn't matter if you see one client a week, or 4 a day.

Eva, I think you may have misunderstood the thread. It's not a 'volume' thing... It's when there are multiple providers seeing clients. I'm very low volume. It also just doesn't look good to sit in the car at a condo or apartment community. It just draws unwanted attention. Doesn't matter if you see one client a week, or 4 a day.
Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

Hey sexy lady,

I do find high volume as an attention bringer and indiscreet - sorry that's just my reality, observation,and experiencing high volume ladies- if one lady has several gents waiting. OR like in the scenario here, when multiple providers have 1-2 each that wait in the car. IF we are discussing discretion, high volume does turn heads. For example, 4 girls working out one room...c'mon, that's discreet at 4-6 gents each? That's 16-24 guys going to one room...or area, someone's bound to notice. Apartment/hotel takes notice and if they aren't hobby friendly, so will LE. People have kids and naturally nosy. Where there are apartments there are children, I have nieces and if I notice a surplus of men and traffic going on in one area, red flags will be raised, and waving in the sky.

Either way, however the cookie crumbles whether there's one high volume provider or multiple providers with 1-2 gents sitting in the lot, its indiscreet. I don't like to live like bumble bees where there is provider congestion. That alone can help with suspicious traffic and guys sitting and waiting. Just coming from my own experience and how I see things, please don't rule my reasoning and logic out or declare observations from my experiences wrong - to me, discretion and high volume do correlate, along with other factors of course like the example you gave. Many factors affect discretion.

This is why I do outcall. I don't like circling parking lots and waiting for confirmations like air traffic control to start an appointment. I like being early. And I really like ladies who are prompt. So many ladies come a tad late. So its refreshing to see one on point.

Maybe in areas that are known for " The Hobby". Where are they ? Does the regular apartment seeker ask the landlord: " do you rent to Escorts " ? Does the regular apartment dweller buy Insurance, have a maid , share rides with someone, go to lunch with someone or any number of other events that require meeting someone in the parking lot ? WTF it happens everywhere, everyday. Maybe paranoia has creeped in here someplace. I am looking outside right now and see a man and a woman sitting in their car across the street from my apartment. Do you think they are there for a BJ ? Normal answer : " Who knows they could be doing any number of things"