Hon, you are a hot lil "authentic" spinner. So many showcases are off by a mile, thank you for keeping it Real Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO
I definitely agree with not negotiating rates. When a provider states, "My donation is $____ per hour," well, pay her or move on to someone cheaper. Trying to lowball her is insulting, not to mention incriminating for her to talk prices in the first place.
However, a word on showcases... If a gent is lurking or not logged in, he cannot see the rates. That line and the "current specials" are viewable by members only. A lot of lurkers have valid concerns about joining. (Several of my gentlemen friends have used ECCIE as a resource but are not members for safety reasons.) Some members may be surfing from work, and while it's bad enough to be hitting ECCIE from the office if Big Brother Boss is watching, worse to sign in.
Like essence, I refer fellows to my website for rates, or my most recent ad here. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
Hon, you are a hot lil "authentic" spinner. So many showcases are off by a mile, thank you for keeping it Real Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO
I love this girl right here!!! Always speaking her mind no matter what!!!!!! Originally Posted by KammyeWith lungs like hers, speaking is easy.
Now is my BFF good or what...?
Always looking out for us...
Kammye could not agree more and your opinion has validity. Always feel free to speak your peace... This is still the USA where you have that right...!!!
P.S. (Kammye's eyes only)
You are one fine looking young lady..! Yikes!! IJS Originally Posted by Ur_1_only
Going to play devil's advocate just a teensy bit. This happens in every industry. People don't read descriptions, prices, terms of service, etc. It's just people. It's not unique to these guys. You just have to accept it and politely deal with it. It will never ever go away. Also, why should it? They ask if you are really a spinner because so many other girls claim to be and aren't. They ask if you'll negotiate because other girls will. I think it's wrong to tell guys to never negotiate with ladies. There are ladies that count on that to make their rent. Yes, they advertise $300/hr, but they're completely happy to take $200/hr if someone is willing to offer it. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying it's reality. I'm not going to judge that girl for doing things the way she does them, but she's the reason we get negotiation inquiries. It's not hard to say "I appreciate your interest, but I do not negotiate my rates." Or simply don't respond.
You can't let the little itty bitty things upset you, sweetie. You're young, you're gorgeous, you seem to have a great reputation. Life is wonderful! If things like this start getting to you, consider getting an assistant. Best decision I ever made. She's great at her job, and I don't have to deal with the "tedium" as I call it. I just get to enjoy the fun parts. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport