Thank you for the sentiment, Dr Grey; it is appreciated.
I left my corporate career of over 11 years to pursue life in a more exciting way. I hobby because I love eroticism, and connection, and having the ability to run my own business.
And at the root of it all -
I absolutely love to fuck.
When I see the gentlemen I choose to see - I am truly excited for their company. I’m a busy mom with a family, two extremely active children - in more extracurricular activities then I can sometimes remember to name, lol - and I look forward to the special moments throughout the day I’m allowed to focus on myself, a gentleman suitor, and highlight the sexy, independent, sexual, desirous woman who burns brightly within me. It makes me feel even more powerful, and beautiful, and strong. Like anything in this world is within my reach.
Some of us hobby because we need, and love the sex just as much as the gentlemen who utilize this site. Yes - it is also my business. But I’m not into living a life that I do not feel fulfilled by, and exciting, and proud to wake up for each morning. I chose this business because it’s something I’m great at. And something I love.
And my parents and teachers always taught me to follow my heart and what makes me happy...
It is true that not all men and women on the providing end of the spectrum enjoy the business as much as one would hope, though. And it’s always sad when people are here who don’t truly enjoy the community - because part of the beauty of this little fantasyland of ours is how fulfilling it can be - in such a vast variety of ways. And sexual fulfillment is a hugely prominent portion of that.
One of the neatest aspects of sites like this is the sheer ability to find almost anything you’re looking for in a hobbying-sense - or at least information pertaining to it - in one general location.
Some women see as many guys a day as they can in hopes of making as much revenue as possible. Some probably take more care in bathing themselves, and fully preparing themselves for a new date than others, as well.
Other women see one or two gentlemen a day, if that - and it is likely that you will still find different bathing and preparation methods, even so.
Some take a full shower between dates, while others use a wet wipe and/or spray, and consider themselves good to go.
Every woman has a different business model. A representation of herself, and how she wishes to portray herself online - as well as in person. Each woman handles her calendar, and manages her time differently. Each one has a different comfort level regarding appointments per day, activities she enjoys, and how much time she needs between dates.
Equally - what each person is looking for in a woman on this site is different.
Some need women who are available quickly - within an hour or so notice - and accept the fact, and don’t mind the fact, that they’re probably one of at least a few, who have already had a similar set up with her that day. Some are even turned on by that - and love knowing the woman they’re with has been a “dirty girl” all day long.
Other guys like scheduling a date days or even weeks/months in advance, and are looking for more of a true “date” experience - and would typically assume, and expect, it to be treated as such. And typically a lady wouldn’t move from one date, directly onto another. Though I’m sure that is still even managed, lol.
Some men are in the mood for someone with more of a “slutty” look, while others are desirous of the “girl next door,” or a hot milf, or a young, more inexperienced lover. Some guys want someone they know loves oral, while others have zero desire to go down on the woman; some love a girl who will ride a cock all day long, while others prefer to have a woman who just wants to throw her big ass up into the air, and take a straight, hard pounding.
My point is - every woman operates her business differently - and every gentleman on this site is looking for something different. Some care more about hygiene than others. And that goes both ways.
However - lack of cleanliness is really pretty unacceptable. And that goes for women, as well as men. The taste of condom wouldn’t be my preference, for sure - but that is far more understandable, in some circumstances - than someone who just isn’t properly cleaning, maintaining, and flat taking care of themself or their body. That is a completely different story - and not something at all acceptable. Especially when your body pertains directly to your livelihood.
I absolutely get where you’re coming from regarding condom smells, cleanliness, truth in desire for it, and other points concerning why one might gravitate away from orally pleasing the woman he’s chosen to see.
But - for those who love orally pleasing - and this activity is something that also gives them great pleasure - and that they genuinely want - there are a variety of beautiful women who taste delicious, perfect for sharing these types of experiences with - just as Dr Grey mentioned.
Equally - there are probably some you’d rather not see for that type of play...
The beauty of it all - is that we have variety, and the ability to share information, and experience, and to choose what we feel suits us best - for our needs in that moment - based on all the information we have available to us, shared by our community and peers.