what ya'll think (providers or guys are all welcome to share your thought)

BSB found my high school photo, my college photo, and my current photo ... I thinck BSB is trying to tempt me to taint her.

Honestly honey, your right, looks dont matter... i dont care if Brad Pitt showed up at my door OR Denzel Washington! lol If they aint paying they can get to stepping lol.

There are special circumstances for everything but in general, a working girl's time is not free for no man, good looking or not. I personally have never given 2 squats about how the guy looked, ((but atleast we dont have to meet people we have never met and spend our entire life with them; ie. arranged marriages))


I also woould like to take this time to make a memo to all gents who like to ask me, do i liek white guys or older guys.... lol YES YES YES i love you all!

That often baffles me when guys ask me do u like whit emen or do you like 60 yr olds.... i will tell yall i have been with a 78 yr old gosh darn it and had a great time! I also want to say for the record, i lost my viriginty to a white guy and slept with only white guys for the first 2 years of my sexual awakening... F.Y.I.

The providers love your wallet.
The mongers love the attention.

I'm not sure I've ever "fallen in love" or even believe in the concept frankly, there are things I "love" about some of the ladies I've met here, and not just the physical, I've enjoyed visiting with them, blogging here with them on various subjects, collaborating on photography etc. I do miss not seeing some who've retired, or otherwise broken off contact, but it's not an emotional reaction as much as an intellectual one.

Maybe it's cold and compartmentalized, but I feel the same way about other people I do business with, shooting the breeze with the guy who's managed the shop I've had my oil changed in for many years, the girl who cuts my hair, the older fellow who checks me out at the grocer. Sure this business is intimate, but it's still just business.

I think every provider finds those certain clients that we get along with better than other but as far as love no this is a job we do this because we have families at home we might be single moms college students or just nymphos and this is the best job that we can have as a nympho lol

I think clients probably feel the same way they get along with certain providers better than other providers and they might have a family at home but the reason they do this (I think) is to have fun and expierence new things

Its not about love its about letting ur self go and experience new things and just having fun

You'd have a better chance of finding a soul mate on eHarmony. Match.com, the workplace, your church, night school, Krogers, country clubs or bars, even.

Think about it: the start of a "relationship" is ass backwards here: 5 minutes after you meet, you're fucking THEN you start talking, texting, maybe seeing her Off The Cock.
Other way around in real life and after you get to know each other, it may never come to sex.

Cinderella doesn't work here.

But her sisters do.

Heck yeah Pyramider, you didn't hear about the sister who had the dungeon below all the little dressmaking mice?
LOL!

Ummm..BrownSugarBaby...unfortu nately Ive seen all 3 of your friends you posted there, but somehow I always try to find something sweet about each one of them.
I mean, c'mon...look at Java there...with his cute little man boobies and his triple chin.
STFU already ppl! Seriously??

Providers are going to love you, or boot you out the door $$$$ or not! I don't care how much mula you have....if you're going to cut me up and cook my brains (or be a Level 5 Creeper/Weirdo that my Provider Reference FAILED TO MENTION when screening you) ....or if you break my bed, massage table (which holds up to 500lbs), or any other furniture
...then we are definitely NOT going to "click" and unfortunately my illusion of passion might be a tad limited.
...Oh and you may find me at the local bar afterwards trying to erase my short term memory!!

Ivan, in all seriousness...it doesn't matter to me what someone may LOOK like as long as he is respectful towards me & knows how to be a gentleman on the streets & a freak in the sheets!
If the gent is shy, I can adjust to that and take control....if he confident in his skin, EVEN BETTER! As long as he is ready to relax, throw all inhibitions out the window, and anticipating a fun-filled time with a sexy frisky Italian woman who's boobs will be in your face in 0.001 seconds...Game on!

If we "click" then yes, of course there are perks with me...
Factors such as: my level of horniness for the day/week (lol)....How sexy he makes ME feel when we're together....How passionate he is....How good of a kisser (other activities, etc.) he is...ALL of these come into play whether or not I will share special perks with someone. Special perks being: extra time together, sexy friends joining in -no added donation required, off the clock bootycalls, etc., etc.

Basically, everyone is different.
You're going to get out of it, what you put into it.

Never fallen for a provider, to me, this is all about indulging and engaging in a fantasy world. I don't really want the soccer mom down the street, that carries drama.... I want to be with the pretend soccer mom down the street that isn't going to show up unannounced at 3 am drunk looking for action, or text me 300 times while I am in a meeting and my phone blows up.

That being said there has been one stripper I would frequently buy off stage because I wanted to hang out with her and then when stormy was here I saw her exclusively and wish we would have met in another life.

Also made the mistake of giving my real number to a provider I saw weekly to hang out off the clock with get drinks all that jazz because we became friends. Was a huge mistake... Try explaining to the gf when she picks up your phone and reads a text from perfect green eyes asking if you want to play!

Heck yeah Pyramider, you didn't hear about the sister who had the dungeon below all the little dressmaking mice?
LOL!

Ummm..BrownSugarBaby...unfortu nately Ive seen all 3 of your friends you posted there, but somehow I always try to find something sweet about each one of them.
I mean, c'mon...look at Java there...with his cute little man boobies and his triple chin.
STFU already ppl! Seriously??

Providers are going to love you, or boot you out the door $$$$ or not! I don't care how much mula you have....if you're going to cut me up and cook my brains (or be a Level 5 Creeper/Weirdo that my Provider Reference FAILED TO MENTION when screening you) ....or if you break my bed, massage table (which holds up to 500lbs), or any other furniture
...then we are definitely NOT going to "click" and unfortunately my illusion of passion might be a tad limited.
...Oh and you may find me at the local bar afterwards trying to erase my short term memory!!

Ivan, in all seriousness...it doesn't matter to me what someone may LOOK like as long as he is respectful towards me & knows how to be a gentleman on the streets & a freak in the sheets!
If the gent is shy, I can adjust to that and take control....if he confident in his skin, EVEN BETTER! As long as he is ready to relax, throw all inhibitions out the window, and anticipating a fun-filled time with a sexy frisky Italian woman who's boobs will be in your face in 0.001 seconds...Game on!

If we "click" then yes, of course there are perks with me...
Factors such as: my level of horniness for the day/week (lol)....How sexy he makes ME feel when we're together....How passionate he is....How good of a kisser (other activities, etc.) he is...ALL of these come into play whether or not I will share special perks with someone. Special perks being: extra time together, sexy friends joining in -no added donation required, off the clock bootycalls, etc., etc.

Basically, everyone is different.
You're going to get out of it, what you put into it.

Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

+1

LOVE doesn't exist in the Hobby, The illusion of love how ever does...If you begin to have feeling of love for a provider or vice-versa a provider having feelings for a client, it's best for both parties to stop.

Guys who feel love for a provider should stop hobbying or stop seeing her. Providers who have feelings for a guy should cut him off.

We should all remember what we're there for to have fun you want love go to match or e harmony. Originally Posted by MrDark

Amen!!!
Unfortunately, we are all human and it happens to the best of us!
But I agree, very much so.

Never fallen for a provider, to me, this is all about indulging and engaging in a fantasy world. I don't really want the soccer mom down the street, that carries drama.... I want to be with the pretend soccer mom down the street that isn't going to show up unannounced at 3 am drunk looking for action, or text me 300 times while I am in a meeting and my phone blows up.
! Originally Posted by projectbliss

LMFAO!!! . . . Classic!

Apparently, you are experiencing the wrong "Soccer Moms"!!!

Seems like I love them all until a few minutes after I'm done..

Love lasts as long as the money lasts. When money stops, so does their interest in you.

Love lasts as long as the money lasts. When money stops, so does their interest in you. Originally Posted by blaeese

and vice versa....

If we stopped being horny you guys would stop being interested in us too lol