Ladies, why do you provide?

I don't have any "excuse" or standard expected reason to do this, I suppose. No forbidden topic issues, no children, no one is forcing me, no daddy issues. I just enjoy it. I've always been a bit of a flirt, tease, tart, whatever you want to label it. It's fun to know you are sexy and wanted, and use that power to your advantage. Maybe that sounds bad, but it isn't meant that way.

I make a living that is very comfortable, and I do it with a job that rarely ever stresses me out, lets me meet very interesting and successful people whom I can glean all sorts of information, advice, and ideas from, and I get treated like a princess in the process. I hear about the dating lives of "normal" women in my life, and it is amazing the disrespect and pouty, aggressive, arrogant, and rude behavior they put up with on dates. My clients almost never behave this way. Every appointment is like the wonderful date you HOPE your civilian date would be like.

Maybe it's just my rigorous screening, but 99% of the guys that come to see me are honestly hoping we both have a wonderful time. That's an awesome way to spend your days, don't you think? Being the highlight of someone else's day/week/month, you both trying your best to make sure the other is left with the best possible feeling and memory of your time together? It's truly awesome. I've had quite a few other jobs. This one is by far my favorite, and by far the most lucrative.

I know you guys have differing opinions on what it must be like to be us, and I'm sure every lady has her own unique experience. But try not to doubt that some of us really do enjoy ourselves, and are here because it's what we really want to do, not because we don't have any other option.

It's always been a matter of choice for me.

A.) Be loose in my real life, or
B.) Be loose in private.

I chose B. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

I love you!

I know that not every girl can do this and actually enjoy it so if you're one that does; why wouldn't you?? Originally Posted by April_Showers

As a hobbyist here, I can say that we CAN tell those who like what they do and enjoy the flirty, fun, adventure available here, and I, for one, prefer to book with those. Some can "pretend" well and they are can be enjoyable to spend time with. And then there are those that just want you to "Get In, Get On, Get Off, and Get Out", with them looking up at the ceiling with an expression that makes you know she's wondering what she's gonna buy at the mall with the donation as soon as you are out the door. Those I don't go back to.

So, for the ladies that are enjoying their time here, and putting money aside and taking care of their obligations all at the same time, I say.. "THANK YOU". You are the ones that keep calling me back in to this playground.

I don't have any "excuse" or standard expected reason to do this, I suppose. No forbidden topic issues, no children, no one is forcing me, no daddy issues. I just enjoy it. I've always been a bit of a flirt, tease, tart, whatever you want to label it. It's fun to know you are sexy and wanted, and use that power to your advantage. Maybe that sounds bad, but it isn't meant that way.

I make a living that is very comfortable, and I do it with a job that rarely ever stresses me out, lets me meet very interesting and successful people whom I can glean all sorts of information, advice, and ideas from, and I get treated like a princess in the process. I hear about the dating lives of "normal" women in my life, and it is amazing the disrespect and pouty, aggressive, arrogant, and rude behavior they put up with on dates. My clients almost never behave this way. Every appointment is like the wonderful date you HOPE your civilian date would be like.

Maybe it's just my rigorous screening, but 99% of the guys that come to see me are honestly hoping we both have a wonderful time. That's an awesome way to spend your days, don't you think? Being the highlight of someone else's day/week/month, you both trying your best to make sure the other is left with the best possible feeling and memory of your time together? It's truly awesome. I've had quite a few other jobs. This one is by far my favorite, and by far the most lucrative.

I know you guys have differing opinions on what it must be like to be us, and I'm sure every lady has her own unique experience. But try not to doubt that some of us really do enjoy ourselves, and are here because it's what we really want to do, not because we don't have any other option. Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

You always are always the highlight of my day.... Ciao

Basically got into this because of low paying jobs and only making like $500.00 a week to pay bills and taxes and at the end that is all I am paying for is bills and taxes and busting my ass off 40+ hrs a week and coming home being tired and not really being able to do things with my 2 boys. So yes I do it cause the money is better and less stress full and really don't have to deal with a shitty boss and back stabbing co-workers. Doing this I have more time and my money to do things with my son's and buy very nice things for them and build them up a savings account for there education,cause college is not cheap.

Also cause I love meeting new people and for damn sure I have a high sex drive and just love having sex and pleasing my partner as well as me being pleased.

There are always multilayered answers

For me it was a compound of things. At a young age I discovered that I was racing a particularly high libido. Unfortunately libido was winning.

I also never had the desire to conform to the societal norm of monogamy. I detested the idea of commitment seeing it more as a cage rather than a comfort.

When I discovered the hobby the idea that men would come to me was an astounding revelation. Not only would they come to me, provide for me on a financial basis but they also did not mind sharing me with the rest of the world! There was a moment of shock, awe and disbelief. I tested the waters in a legal fashion first.

cont...

After I became comfortable and did some trial and error I found exactly what I needed out of the hobby. Friends with benefits. A financial stability that allows freedom of mind and body. intimate companions that are non judgmental.

A social forum that I could enjoy without holding back my true thoughts or interests. If I had succumb to a career in psychology for instance, discussing with my coworkers a fantasy that involves a TS would be appalling to them. It would step over the line of social decorum.

In this venue I can discuss my interests no matter where they roam. be they of the sexual variety, science fiction, or simply something as simple as a debate on human psychology.

Gotta agree with Wildcat about the low paying jobs. I was working part-time and was lucky if I made between 3-500 every two weeks.
After my divorce I had no marketable skills so was only able to find anything more than minimum wage jobs and ended up owing money to my ex and taking out payday loans. I'm working on paying my ex back, and no longer living with the payday loans and their interest every week or two.
I also have a very high libido and getting stood up quite a bit and ended up with toys/masturbating most nights. Being a swinger, I also enjoy variety in partners.
I also agree with others that I've met some very nice gentlemen in the hobby. Plus, I seem to get more respect from hobbyists than guys that say they want to date me.

Thank you for your replies ladies.We all have our various reasons for doing this and it is interesting to hear from the other side of the fence.

several reasons.....
1. I LOVE sex
2. I love the variety of men I meet
3. Not one person in my personal life can keep up with me sexually
4. While I do have several college degrees, and while it would be a "regular" job, I would never make the same amount of money.
5. Either way with the amount of sex I want, I may as well get paid while having fun!
6. Did I mention I LOVE sex?

So I can make more working 5 hours a week than I would working 40 hours anywhere else. I get to travel, make my own hours, and still have time to enjoy my 20s. Plus it feels good to be able to make more in 3 hours than my fiance makes in 2 weeks

Jaycee, you are a very interesting lady. I sincerely hope I get the pleasure to meet you someday.

After I became comfortable and did some trial and error I found exactly what I needed out of the hobby. Friends with benefits. A financial stability that allows freedom of mind and body. intimate companions that are non judgmental.

A social forum that I could enjoy without holding back my true thoughts or interests. If I had succumb to a career in psychology for instance, discussing with my coworkers a fantasy that involves a TS would be appalling to them. It would step over the line of social decorum.

In this venue I can discuss my interests no matter where they roam. be they of the sexual variety, science fiction, or simply something as simple as a debate on human psychology. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

1. My sex drive is crazy high
2. I enjoy pleasing others
3. I am a very careful calculating thrill seeker
4. I don't want to be a wage slave for the rest of my life using my Masters
5. I had over $80,000 in student loans
6. I am a bisexual polygamist and there is too much of a Candy shop out there not to try it

Where else can you get paid to have your ass eaten?

Because I enjoy it... Originally Posted by Naughty Destiny

@Naughty Destiny I just had to say you have some very innocent and hauntingly big beautiful blue eyes.

BL