Disappointments and the 30 min session

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Marley's and Carrina's normal 30 min rates as posted on their websites are $150. I'm not counting specials. Darien's norm is below $150. Originally Posted by txAustin202
I don't pay attention to the sites, I guess. I send a PM that I want to see them, etc.

well except carrina, wont repeat with her but she has other satisfied clients and plenty of WK's to counter post anything negative that is said about her....

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Actually neither. I was expecting her to be better looking. She looks really hot in her showcase pictures and guys who have reviewed her also stated that she's hot. Don't get me wrong. She was a really nice girl. Just didn't live up to expectations looks wise. Originally Posted by txAustin202
One person's hot is another's not-so-hot. as far as pics, its safe to assume that no one posts the most unflattering pic of the bunch. going 50% is a pretty good percentage.
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I will say that there are a couple of providers that I would like to PM to ask who takes their pics! I need that person to take a pic of me so I can put a new one up on my facebook page. I would look like I weigh 220lbs lol

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Very true, but it has been discussed on this board hundreds of times, when the door opens you ALWAYS have the right to turn around and leave if she's not as hot as you expected, dreamed, etc. providers are YMMV and so can we be imo.

When were you disappointed? beginning, middle, or after?
Sorry to read about your dissapointment,but found it informative. I have been considering her since joining eccie. Is it possible that you should enter with lower expectations. That might lower possibility of being dissapointed.
CK, baby gurl your extremely nice looking! Might I also add that you taste great too...
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to the OP, think of it as a tradeoff. Because of this site and its showcases, you decided to see the girl you are referring to. She turned out not that great and now you've helped others who were probably on the fence, like myself since I was always curious about her. It all balances out in the end. I'm sure you'll get saved the trouble from someone else too.

as for 30 minute sessions, I typically like them longer. I kinda want to get to know the person, but some chicks are too messed up to get to know, so 30 minutes are appropriate for those types.

I'd recommend 30 minutes primarily for BP girls or traveling types. I'd recommend hours for someone who seems like they would be really appreciative and good to you, hence someone you can invest in again with more visits and more time. If the lady can't appreciate you as a person or your money then she can eat a dick.
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This is also the reason that I prefer 30 minute sessions with ladies that I've never met before. I'm curious to know, especially from the ladies that don't offer these sessions, why that is. Is it too costly( ie incall, gas, etc ... )? So not worth the effort? Originally Posted by txAustin202

Howdy, Folks!


Hmm...



As an aside, and this is just from what I've heard from other people since I've never done 30 minutes- basically the only thing that changes with a 30 minute appointment is the amount of money...most guys still leave around the 45 minute/hour mark. A few girls have mentioned that after they started offering 30 minutes they didn't get very many longer date requests because often the overnight date kinda guy has a bit of disdain for the 30 minute fellow and doesn't want to book a girl that has been essentially having a train ran on her by "cheap bastards" all week. There are still lots of potential clients that believe high rate= low volume and low rate=high volume.


I think the above pretty much sums it up, especially the section I bolded.

Thing is, if I were a provider and the session was for 30 minutes, then it shouldn't go over that.

If it did(or appeared it was going to), then I think it would be appropriate for the Hobbyist to be politely but firmly informed his time is up, and if he would like to continue the session, the full hour rate now will apply.

If done politely, the Hobbyist should(hopefully) either:

A. leave

B. pay for the extended time


If the Hobbyist does not opt for either A or B, then I would hope the provider would take steps to ensure the Hobbyist is never able to behave in this fashion ever again. He does us all a disservice.




Oh, and this sort of attitude may also have something to do with the lack of 30 minute sessions...


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I totally agree with what you've stated. I usually ask for 30 min with option to extend to 60 with girls that I meet for the first time. I'm not against hr sessions. Just want to be sure that we click before taking the hr plunge.

Your bolded text reminds me of bootcamp. Everybody gets punished because a few screwed up.

Howdy, Folks!


Hmm...



As an aside, and this is just from what I've heard from other people since I've never done 30 minutes- basically the only thing that changes with a 30 minute appointment is the amount of money...most guys still leave around the 45 minute/hour mark. A few girls have mentioned that after they started offering 30 minutes they didn't get very many longer date requests because often the overnight date kinda guy has a bit of disdain for the 30 minute fellow and doesn't want to book a girl that has been essentially having a train ran on her by "cheap bastards" all week. There are still lots of potential clients that believe high rate= low volume and low rate=high volume.


I think the above pretty much sums it up, especially the section I bolded.

Thing is, if I were a provider and the session was for 30 minutes, then it shouldn't go over that.

If it did(or appeared it was going to), then I think it would be appropriate for the Hobbyist to be politely but firmly informed his time is up, and if he would like to continue the session, the full hour rate now will apply.

If done politely, the Hobbyist should(hopefully) either:

A. leave

B. pay for the extended time


If the Hobbyist does not opt for either A or B, then I would hope the provider would take steps to ensure the Hobbyist is never able to behave in this fashion ever again. He does us all a disservice.




Oh, and this sort of attitude may also have something to do with the lack of 30 minute sessions...


Originally Posted by Baloney Pony
I offer 30m because i think it better for some guy. Some guys dont need/want an hour to complete. So why pay for a hour? Save money.
In light of this thread I have decided to offer 30 minute sessions during my upcoming trip to Austin.

I have not typically offered them in the past because I am not a clock watcher and am afraid a 30 minute session might turn me into one, but why not use Austin as trial city?

I do think it only courteous to let the provider know that there is a chance that you might want to extend the session for the full hour and if it runs over the 30 minutes, you have every intention on paying for the hour. It would alleviate pressure from the provider being the one watching the clock.

I also think that a 30 minute session might encourage a more passionate, concentrated time together and if you guys in the Hill Country prefer it, why the hell not... I'm just saying.
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I also think that a 30 minute session might encourage a more passionate, concentrated time together and if you guys in the Hill Country prefer it, why the hell not... I'm just saying.
Originally Posted by AidanMacKenna
30 min sessions rule!

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Wow, I had thought about making this same post myself - for the exact reasons. I have quite often made the initial commitment for an hour, then wished I had tested the waters with a 1/2 hour session instead. Lessons learned. As far as I am concerned a 1 hr session implies MSOG. Just my opinion.
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This used to be my biggest problem.

I guess I'm picky, but when I pay to see a provider, I hope they would look as good as the girls I normally date. That has not been the case for the most part. If you've been running 50%, you were luckier than I was. I would say I have been happy with about 20% of my sessions.

Now I interview before I shell out anything more than cost of coffee or a meal. While it can get tedious to go through interview after interview, it's been worth it.

I've never done 30 minute sessions, mainly because I don't think I can get a pop in that time slot.
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I've never done 30 minute sessions, mainly because I don't think I can get a pop in that time slot. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor
Brag, brag, brag lol

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