Bust in Syracuse.. in the news

lilylivered's Avatar
All I know is that there was only one person who constantly tried helping her. He has been described as a sugardaddy, friend, father figure, lover and stalker. He repeatedly got her help when she fell. No doubt about that he cared for her. I asked her several times if she was OK, and she always would say, "You dont believe those lies, do you" If she cant admit to the problem and he couldnt get through to her, there was basically no chance I could have helped her. She had to save herself
As far as enabling goes I dont agree with that theory, I have lost friends the same way, and they just had regular paying jobs. It really sucks when it happens, and I have been grieving since I got a phone call on a Saturday that she was in the hospital brain dead. I will miss our conversations...
I avoided commenting before because I know there is always a shit show on this shit hole site. So go ahead...
Who died?
Next Best Thing's Avatar
this shit hole site. Originally Posted by lilylivered
I do believe you may be confusing our site with someplace else.
Missburger's Avatar
All I know is that there was only one person who constantly tried helping her. He has been described as a sugardaddy, friend, father figure, lover and stalker. He repeatedly got her help when she fell. No doubt about that he cared for her. I asked her several times if she was OK, and she always would say, "You dont believe those lies, do you" If she cant admit to the problem and he couldnt get through to her, there was basically no chance I could have helped her. She had to save herself
As far as enabling goes I dont agree with that theory, I have lost friends the same way, and they just had regular paying jobs. It really sucks when it happens, and I have been grieving since I got a phone call on a Saturday that she was in the hospital brain dead. I will miss our conversations...
I avoided commenting before because I know there is always a shit show on this shit hole site. So go ahead... Originally Posted by lilylivered
Y’all get too close to them
It’s sad story and rough to get them help
I agree with you on the enabling issue

I don’t f w with any females who do that stuff just my rule


Sad story and in this biz happens a lot


On a side note

585 648 0325

She needs a sugar daddy

Thanks
jokacz's Avatar
I busted my ass getting one into Detox at ECMC last month.


She stayed one night and ran away.


"You can lead a whore to culture, but you can't make her think."


Only they can save themselves, trite as that is.
K?
TheReal's Avatar
Don’t bother getting close, it will not do you any good. I suppose some of us have to make that decision and see it was pointless. I would drove her to her meetings and appointments. As stated before, only they can save themselves...
JONBALLS's Avatar
i take the flu season /winter off regardless

most times theare flemmy and horking up a lung besides the dope
JONBALLS's Avatar
the "VID"

never overdoses


it just gets worn out


you don't have to drag it down to rehab
Missburger's Avatar
I busted my ass getting one into Detox at ECMC last month.


She stayed one night and ran away.


"You can lead a whore to culture, but you can't make her think."


Only they can save themselves, trite as that is. Originally Posted by jokacz
Lead em to the desert find the water but they won’t drink it
Next Best Thing's Avatar
Of course these prostitutes would do the same for you if you had some disgusting personal habit that you found yourself drowning in.

Drop everything to nurse you back to contentedness.

Chicken soup for your poor pitiful soul.

Wake up before it's too late and allow the misadventures of those without sound judgment serve as a lesson to each and every one of you male lesbians out there please.
jokacz's Avatar
Of course these prostitutes would do the same for you if you had some disgusting personal habit that you found yourself drowning in.

Drop everything to nurse you back to contentedness.

Chicken soup for your poor pitiful soul.

Wake up before it's too late and allow the misadventures of those without sound judgment serve as a lesson to each and every one of you male lesbians out there please. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

Point made


lilylivered's Avatar
Of course these prostitutes would do the same for you if you had some disgusting personal habit that you found yourself drowning in.

Drop everything to nurse you back to contentedness.

Chicken soup for your poor pitiful soul.

Wake up before it's too late and allow the misadventures of those without sound judgment serve as a lesson to each and every one of you male lesbians out there please. Originally Posted by Next Best Thing
Sad, but the thing is she might have against the odds
JONBALLS's Avatar
Sad, but the thing is she might have against the odds Originally Posted by lilylivered
seems your around and



her "odds" aren't great
lilylivered's Avatar
seems your around and



her "odds" aren't great Originally Posted by JONBALLS
Always nice to see your input JB : )