What would you do????

Scenerio:

You are in the grocery store when you look back and there stands your ATF. She smiles and ask how you are doing. While trying to pry your dirty mind out of the gutter (since you probably just saw her the day before and she did that thing with her tongue that drives you mad);

Anyways back to the scenerio:

so you notice that she has a few items in her hand.

WOULD YOU PAY FOR THE ITEMS FOR HER???? Originally Posted by Maci Lynn

Would you give me a discount the next time I saw you? I've never asked for a discount before but on the other hand I've never been asked if I would pay for groceries.

I saw my ATF one time at walmart....but i already checked out...plus it was like 200 dollars worth of groceries.
He was alone and I was alone....so of course we said hello, then he followed me home!!

But if he or i had anyone with us, then a quick smile and nod would of been appropriate.

Good thread girl!!

love the tats on the back of the leg toooo....very sexy

No. Paying for someone else's stuff at a grocery store is odd. Also, I would not walk up behind my ATF in a checkout line. If I saw her in the store somewhere, I would not follow her around the store until she checked out, or linger around the checkout lines waiting.

Buying someone a drink at a bar is different, and I wouldn't do that unless they were sitting near me and we are having a conversation.

Paying for groceries is only acceptable if she's a SW, and you just had a session, and you give her the choice of Jack in the Box tacos or groceries.

Paying for groceries is only acceptable if she's a SW, and you just had a session, and you give her the choice of Jack in the Box tacos or groceries. Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Groceris are much more expensive then the Tacos Thor... Are you tipping now?

Damn, I thought the tacos were for Miss San Antonio.

Groceris are much more expensive then the Tacos Thor... Are you tipping now? Originally Posted by Whispers

Only if I get around to seeing SWs. Seems to be the SOP for some girls.

Scenerio:

You are in the grocery store when you look back and there stands your ATF. She smiles and ask how you are doing. While trying to pry your dirty mind out of the gutter (since you probably just saw her the day before and she did that thing with her tongue that drives you mad);

Anyways back to the scenerio:

so you notice that she has a few items in her hand.

WOULD YOU PAY FOR THE ITEMS FOR HER???? Originally Posted by Maci Lynn

I would only pay for your purchases if I glanced down and saw you had a roll of duct tape, can of whipped cream, jar of honey and a set of jumper cables.....

Otherwise, you are on your own.....

I have to agree with Paven and Crystal! Hell half the time I am in my own little world when I'm shopping I dont even notice family members or friends that are there lol.

No you're in the store doing your thing and you have your own money to make purchases.

More importantly though is if you do see a client in the "real world", do not approach them, if you happen to make eye contact fine, but continue on your way. You never know who he might be in the store with and wifey might be coming up the aisle with a few more items. All of a sudden the wife turns into Ricky Ricardo with you got some explainin' to do while he turns into Lucy. Why are you talking to that girl? Who is she? Best to not draw any attention. That's the best analogy I can come up with this morning . Discretion is key. Originally Posted by Paven

This is the only way to approach this potentially disastrous situation. Something similar happened to me around Christmas except the provider came up from behind me and hugged me. It went over like a fart in a spacesuit with my girlfriend that was twenty feet away from me when it happened. I am still lieing about that one.... It's just as important to not approach a provider in public. Just smile and move on.

This is the only way to approach this potentially disastrous situation. Something similar happened to me around Christmas except the provider came up from behind me and hugged me. It went over like a fart in a spacesuit with my girlfriend that was twenty feet away from me when it happened. I am still lieing about that one.... It's just as important to not approach a provider in public. Just smile and move on. Originally Posted by sterling1

She was way out of line...... That one shoulda got reported to the mix...

Never had something like this happen to me, but if I saw my ATF at the grocery store I would just make eye contact and smile and say hello. I would not offer to pay her groceries, or approach her in any way...much less follow her....that would be creepy. I think she makes her own money, deserves her privacy and to be respected like anyone else. Now if the situation was reversed and my ATF saw me, it would be awesome to get the attention, but I would not expect anything else. Either way, it would give us something to talk about during our next encounter

No SAJ....this has not ever happened to me. I have only been spotted twice and they both were very respectful and waited for the hellos via email.

I was just curious because when I see a guy looking at me in public, it is always in the back of my mind if that guy knows me from hobbying or does he just think I am attractive.....ladies do you think the same?

Sometimes I wonder about that too, but getting stared at is a daily occurrence in my life lol. Between my hair and my boobs I get a lot of attention . Though I find it funny when a man approaches me and says "I like you hair", when his eyes are on my tits lol. Like I've never encountered that before.

Damn, I thought the tacos were for Miss San Antonio. Originally Posted by rCoder

hahaha, that's funny in it's own right, but if anybody saw the news article they would really laugh -