What dictates how much you pay.

From my perspective I certainly need to be attracted to the provider but they don't have to have top model looks but they do need top provider skills and excellent customer service.

I would rather pay $300 for someone with average looks and body that will cater to my needs on a personal basis than $100 for a young hotty that is mechanical.

That said, $200 is my comfort point where I can see the same provider once a week that already knows what I need and fulfills me completely.

I can't disagree with some of what is said and I am very benevolent in many areas outside the hobby. I grew up poor and was fortunate through hard work and talent to establish a couple profitable businesses. And yes I agree there are few who you can have this type of relationship with. I have only had three total in 30 plus years of hobbying. And I certainly would not go to the poor house doing this. It is like everything else in life. If you can't afford something you shouldn't be doing it.
As far as finding a girl friend I tried that route too a bunch of years ago. Not to many girls want a boyfriend that is only available a few times a week, once in awhile on the weekend and never on a holiday. Same with a mistress. Like I said earlier there is every level here from The Streetwalker BJ to the overnight 1000+ courtesan.
Just depends on what makes each of us happy. I know what it is like to struggle and go without so I enjoy giving to others. And I appreciate the intimacy that developed when it is the right girl. Right now I am looking again so until I find someone I will enjoy being with the girls that are available to me.
As Boatguy said intimacy is very important in the experience. You can't pay for intimacy. It is something that developed over time as you interact with a person and getting to know them means getting to know their likes and needs. If bringing a gift or helping with a phone bill brings some joy to them you have to know that it makes the relationship sweeter. And of course it depends on the girl. Some girls I have known don't want any more than bring the money, let me get you off and goodbye. That's ok. Some guys want that. Sometimes I want that.

looks, menu, attitude, a clean safe incall it's a combination of things. I fucked the hottest girl i ever seen I this hobby for 80$ Off of Craigslist when it still had escort services and she was like mechinical like a robot . I'd take a average looking girl with a open menu in a good attitude for 200 over a 10 who is going through the motions for 80

I'd take a average looking girl with a open menu in a good attitude for 200 over a 10 who is going through the motions for 80 Originally Posted by Seanross26

Yep. Eye candy only goes so far.

Looks and reviews for me.

No fat chicks, no stretch marks, no excessive ink, reliable, not a moron, has tits, no cbj, no gps, not ghetto fabulous, no strippers, no pimps, no threADS...

No fat chicks, no stretch marks, no excessive ink, reliable, not a moron, has tits, no cbj, no gps, not ghetto fabulous, no strippers, no pimps, no threADS... Originally Posted by jokacz

Quite a rigorous requirement list. I must confess that I have violated pretty much all of those principles at one time or another, with the exception of pimps.

So just curious what do you guys think a fair rate would be? I try to be fair with my pricing but you always gonna have those who think it's to much...so honestly what's a good fair rate?

In Buffalo, 200-250 an hour for a good provider. Since 80 buck halves, and 160 hours are available across the river. (before the exchange rate is figured) But most Buffalo girls aren't even worth what the Canadians get.

So just curious what do you guys think a fair rate would be? I try to be fair with my pricing but you always gonna have those who think it's to much...so honestly what's a good fair rate? Originally Posted by Sexyangelbaby

It all depends, naturally, on the services provided, attitude, quality of incall, physical features, and even TCB skills. The going-rate of a market makes a difference, as in I don't expect to pay the same hourly rate in Boston as I do in Rochester, even if all factors are identical.

I look at your showcase--pics, bio, and reviews--and it strikes me that your rates are very fair.

So just curious what do you guys think a fair rate would be? I try to be fair with my pricing but you always gonna have those who think it's to much...so honestly what's a good fair rate? Originally Posted by Sexyangelbaby

Your rates are fine. I'd see you as they are now if you were in the area.

So just curious what do you guys think a fair rate would be? I try to be fair with my pricing but you always gonna have those who think it's to much...so honestly what's a good fair rate? Originally Posted by Sexyangelbaby

I have no problem with 200+ for a good GFE. For me there's a world of difference between a GFE and someone who just goes through the motions. By all accounts you're a very good GFE so I consider your rates fair. But like you said there will always be some who think it's too much. In fairness to those guys they probably aren't looking for the GFE type. For them it doesn't make sense to spend the extra coin if they're simply looking to bust a nut.

I can't disagree with some of what is said and I am very benevolent in many areas outside the hobby. I grew up poor and was fortunate through hard work and talent to establish a couple profitable businesses. And yes I agree there are few who you can have this type of relationship with. I have only had three total in 30 plus years of hobbying. And I certainly would not go to the poor house doing this. It is like everything else in life. If you can't afford something you shouldn't be doing it.
As far as finding a girl friend I tried that route too a bunch of years ago. Not to many girls want a boyfriend that is only available a few times a week, once in awhile on the weekend and never on a holiday. Same with a mistress. Like I said earlier there is every level here from The Streetwalker BJ to the overnight 1000+ courtesan.
Just depends on what makes each of us happy. I know what it is like to struggle and go without so I enjoy giving to others. And I appreciate the intimacy that developed when it is the right girl. Right now I am looking again so until I find someone I will enjoy being with the girls that are available to me.
As Boatguy said intimacy is very important in the experience. You can't pay for intimacy. It is something that developed over time as you interact with a person and getting to know them means getting to know their likes and needs. If bringing a gift or helping with a phone bill brings some joy to them you have to know that it makes the relationship sweeter. And of course it depends on the girl. Some girls I have known don't want any more than bring the money, let me get you off and goodbye. That's ok. Some guys want that. Sometimes I want that. Originally Posted by FlyboyNY

Im like you i wouldn't say i was poor but was raised by a single parent money was always very tight... Best thing i ever did was Join the Corp instilled in me a crazy work ethic that has carried me to heights i never dreamed of when i was younger.... I dont have a GF dont want a GF and have already taken provisions that my sister and nieces and nephews will be well taken care of... So as for the rest of my coin....Cant take it with me when i die dont know anyone else who deserves it so fk it ill spend every penny before i leave this world thats my view as long as im having fun and enjoying life i really dont care how much it costs....

CPI is up to 1.1% these days....adjust accordingly

CPI is up to 1.1% these days....adjust accordingly Originally Posted by 57jpeg

Really?
You believe those 'fudged' numbers???......