Nice way to back out once you see a provider and you just don't like them either looks or their personality?

Do your homework to the extreme, pick classy VIP providers and most likely you won’t end up in this situation....and...even if you do be polite and a quality provider will understand. Leave the BSC and BP providers for someone else.

Always carry a pizza. E'erbody loves pizza. I mean, who can go all BSC on someone holding a pizza?

I bet you will never see a review or alert that says, "Asshole tried to gimme a pizza. I smashed that box and told that jerk to piss off!" Hell, no. It'd be, "It was bad. Real bad. But, we shared a pizza and e'erthang's cool."

Always.take.a.pizza! Originally Posted by Billogoods

Man, this is kinda funny. I know a big pizza lover in my RL that would find this too funny if I had the balls to tell them what I do. But I don't think that would happen. Nice one though.

If the showcase was misrepresented, or the incall was messy, or say there was a roommate or other person present that you were unaware was going to be there, I think it's best to apologize and just leave.
If you just got cold feet or worse your spidy sense is going off, telling you someting is off, definitely don't find out your right by whipping out cash!


Do you think your going to try again or something with the same provider? If so, why?

If none of those things are true, what would change your mind once your there?

Depends on the situation.

1. If you get there and she looks like her pics, but that spark just isn't there-- leave her a few bucks for her trouble, apologize and excuse yourself.

2. If you get there and she appears... shall we say... altered or if the environment doesn't seem safe... leave her a few bucks for her trouble, apologize and excuse youreslf.

3. If she does not look ANYTHING like the person you booked with... apologize and excuse yourself. Do not reward a provider for bait and switch tactics. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Exactly what I was going to say. If sparks don't fly, but there is no misrepresentation, that happens from time to time. I've left half the fee, or so occasionally or just gone through with the session in any event. Depends on the situation.

But if the misrepresentation is blatant (versus just portraying herself in the best light), screw it. You don't owe them one thing.

I don’t know if it’s the nicest, but you could at least do it with style. My suggestion is to moonwalk.

Oh yeah, maybe leave 1/3 of the fee. It could save you a lot of headaches later.

If she looks nothing like the pics, I think you can walk without giving anything. She basically try to con you.

Always carry a pizza. E'erbody loves pizza. I mean, who can go all BSC on someone holding a pizza?

I bet you will never see a review or alert that says, "Asshole tried to gimme a pizza. I smashed that box and told that jerk to piss off!" Hell, no. It'd be, "It was bad. Real bad. But, we shared a pizza and e'erthang's cool."

Always.take.a.pizza! Originally Posted by Billogoods

I couldn't help but think of one of the stupidest porn series in history, Big Sausage Pizza:

https://www.pornhub.com/video/search...+sausage+pizza

Man, this is kinda funny. I know a big pizza lover in my RL that would find this too funny if I had the balls to tell them what I do. But I don't think that would happen. Nice one though. Originally Posted by tntangie

What toppings do you prefer?

Seriously, what is etiquette? I’ve actually went through with a couple sessions because I just didn’t want to hurt the ladies feelings. Living in America, I know a thing or two about being judged solely on what you look like and that shit sucks!
I’ve also had some hell-naw moments, when I thought it was bait and switch and just didn’t walk into the room.

Even then, I felt horrible and could only imagine what the other side felt. I don’t want anyone to feel like they are being treated like a piece of meat.
Unless it’s me, and the lady is enjoying herself.

Living in America, I know a thing or two about being judged solely on what you look like and that shit sucks! Originally Posted by 8701

They have willingly decided to participate in the business of selling, thus being judged by, their looks. I hope you are not trying to compare that to issues of race in America. The two are not even remotely comparable.

I’m inquiring about information from the ladies, nothing more. Men your opinion don’t matter at this moment...sorry

Just curious...did her profile/reviews not state her height? Maybe if you had said "wow you're really tall, that shit turns me on" or "wow you're really tall, can't wait to devour you" she might have reacted differently.

Maybe think of it this way... you arrive at an in-call and when she answers the door she tells you " wowww, you are really short"...

If a fake provider can make $40-50 per con act, doing it 3-4 times a day, or 10 times a week, that's a pretty good score for not actually doing any 'work', except for the con act itself. Wish someone would give me 50 bucks for being a faker.

Now, to go see a REAL provider, I gotta dig 50 bucks deeper into my hobby stash (or more, rates may vary).

What if I've been conned twice already??

Just saying.

If a fake provider can make $40-50 per con act, doing it 3-4 times a day, or 10 times a week, that's a pretty good score for not actually doing any 'work', except for the con act itself. Wish someone would give me 50 bucks for being a faker.

Now, to go see a REAL provider, I gotta dig 50 bucks deeper into my hobby stash (or more, rates may vary).

What if I've been conned twice already??

Just saying. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Randall, we all know a con girl is going to get talked about like wildfire.

Like how long do you think she can keep making $40-$50 each time something doesn’t work out with a client.

Any lady who is trying to keep a good reputation and keep good reviews and bring back business is going to not want to do that kind of thing. I mean, have a little hobby sense there. Don’t be over dramatic.

Ah Randall... *sigh* What are we going to do with you.

I think the common consensus is that you DON'T give anything to the CON women. Bait and switch do not deserve anything.

The $50 I suggested was for situations where it is just a preference issue or a personality mesh issue. Can also be used for a courtesy thing if one got that "come home now" phone call when pulling into the parking lot etc. A considerate token.

Not a reward for being a scammer.

But again, all of this was said before you made your response.