African Americans

Money line!

Fast forward to 2:41.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-I7JJChM6IQ Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

ROTFLMAO!!

I know the subject's been debated for ever on here, so I'm not wishing to come on one side or the other.

I just thought I'd share a bit of irony with you all. A provider just turned me down because she thinks I'm black. No, I won't say who it was because I think a gal can see who she wants. And, to be fair, my avatar is a black guy ...........
Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

Because of your avatar, I thought you must be black. Why else would you pick that avatar?

Tell us straight out, you brought it up. Are you AA, or not?


JR

I'm whiter than All This Meat's avatar.

My avatar is Dolemite, a pimp from a series of 1970's blaxploitation movies. Do you honestly know any black guys who really call themselves hustle extrodinaire? It's a joke. Watch the clip and laugh.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=stmzlKVYncw

I have not now, nor have I ever judged a man based on his color, size, or looks. I can be on occasion partial to older gentlemen simply because I have more in common with them.

As for the reasons. Yes for some ladies it is the potential size. However some would rather decline with a "compliment" and avoid complications.

My apologies if my insight was taken wrong. I had inside sources and thought it might be helpful to share.

Do I see African American men? Absolutely. provided they are gentlemanly. the same standard I hold to any race or skin tone. Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

So, size does matter!

JR

I really don't know what is going on in the hooktard community, however, there seems to be a new prevalence of ladies with a No Blacks Allowed (NBA) policy.

Some ladies don't advertise having such a policy... in some cases, that can be bad for a gentleman shopping around for companionship (we're all just looking for companionship right?) and finding out at the last possible moment that a provider won't see you because of your ethnicity. One provider turning you away because she thinks you might be black--I'm sure that's easy to chalk up to being her perrogative. When you've hit the 20th or 30th one, give me a call and we'll compare notes haha

Personally, I think I'm a nice guy, I'm well read, well mannered, funny, articulate (notice, only black people describe themselves as articulate? It is code for the white people we deal with to let them know that if they use big words, we can follow along), and well thought of by my peers... however, if a lady can't look past my skin to see how awesome a person I am--well... fuck that bitch. No, really, fuck her... Because, I wanted to and can't because, ya know... I'm black haha

There are a lot of reasons women give for having a NBA policy... I think 80% them are usually full of shit. Some, however, have made a distinction between a certain type of client they will not see--rude, aggressive, ungentlemanly, or ill-mannered in general... others restrict based off of age within a particular ethnicity/demographic... I don't have an issue with these things because they don't have an effect on my interactions. However, if I were young, black and maybe a little cocky--I can see how such policies would be frustrating to see over and over again.

. Originally Posted by AllThisMeat

Interesting post.

On a similar note, I don't like vanilla ice cream.
No real reason, I just don't like it.

I'm sure lots of people love vanilla ice cream, or mint chocolate chip. or rocky road, just not me.


A person doesn't need a logical reason to defend or reason why they like or don't like something, that's just how they are.

There is no reason to get upset about it. Don't even think about a provider who won't see you, find a provider who will see you.

Last night, i texted a lady from BP asking what her rates were... she text me back asking my age and race.

"37 and human"

She gave me good laugh in response to that one...

I think people don't understand the difference between race and culture. Okay, lets accept that white is the standard. That is not a judgement but a statement of fact. There are many kinds of white men. Russian men have a bit of a PR problem when it comes to women but it is not an all encompassing perception. Imagine that it was. Imagine that for a hundred years that Russian men was cast as brutal villains in literature and movies. Imagine that the newspaper had reports daily of Russian men being arrested for crimes against women. So now would you call a woman a racist if she decided that she would prefer not to take the chance with Russian men or by extension, men would sound or act like Russian men.

As for the OP and his avatar, why would anyone want to compare themselves to a low life like a pimp is beyond me (how about Shaft instead). Yes, I said a pimp is a low life. Even lower than a lawyer. They are abusive enslavers of women and young boys. They deal in drugs and sometimes murder. If someone had a long time avatar of their hero, and their hero was a Nazi, would a woman want to take that chance?

Interesting post.

On a similar note, I don't like vanilla ice cream.
No real reason, I just don't like it.

I'm sure lots of people love vanilla ice cream, or mint chocolate chip. or rocky road, just not me.


A person doesn't need a logical reason to defend or reason why they like or don't like something, that's just how they are.

There is no reason to get upset about it. Don't even think about a provider who won't see you, find a provider who will see you. Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

I'm not sure if you actually read what I wrote... however, I've not said people needed a logical reason for anything they do. I didn't say I was upset about anything. As far as finding a provider who will see me... yeah, I think I've accomplished that herculean task a few times over.

Funny thing is that in the past 3 months, I've seen 4 different providers who have spoken to me over the phone, waited until I got into the room and said hello before saying, "you know, I normally don't see black men but you're cool." One of those girls was black. I don't have issues with anyone who doesn't have issues with me. And for those who do... I've no issues with them as long as they let me know their bias ahead of time.

Because of your avatar, I thought you must be black. Why else would you pick that avatar?

Tell us straight out, you brought it up. Are you AA, or not?


JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence

AA means africian-american,?
I have black friends who were born in USA. they don't get why people describe them as "Africian"? They are american, born and raised, never been to africa,

We arent allowed to call black people black? yet no one calls me irish-american, I'm just "white"
why not call a black person black?

I'm whiter than All This Meat's avatar.

My avatar is Dolemite, a pimp from a series of 1970's blaxploitation movies. Do you honestly know any black guys who really call themselves hustle extrodinaire? It's a joke. Watch the clip and laugh.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=stmzlKVYncw Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

I know a few who would love that name... but it is taken by a white dude haha!

White hookers see All This Meat because he makes Bryant Gumbel look like Malcolm X.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezP77L5jhCI

I know a few who would love that name... but it is taken by a white dude haha! Originally Posted by AllThisMeat

That's right, jive turkey!

So, size does matter!

JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Size only matters when it is so big one feels as if they are having a baby instead of enjoying an internal massage.

Smaller members can be worked around. there are alternative adjacent housing available for smaller members. Larger members will find it hard to be welcomed into any home

I'm not sure if you actually read what I wrote... however, I've not said people needed a logical reason for anything they do. I didn't say I was upset about anything. As far as finding a provider who will see me... yeah, I think I've accomplished that herculean task a few times over. Originally Posted by AllThisMeat

I read what you wrote and when I read the below, it seemed as you thought there should be a legit reason for not seeing a black man.

There are a lot of reasons women give for having a NBA policy... I think 80% them are usually full of shit. Originally Posted by AllThisMeat

and no reason is needed.(at least in this profession)

Funny thing is that in the past 3 months, I've seen 4 different providers who have spoken to me over the phone, waited until I got into the room and said hello before saying, "you know, I normally don't see black men but you're cool." One of those girls was black. I don't have issues with anyone who doesn't have issues with me. And for those who do... I've no issues with them as long as they let me know their bias ahead of time. Originally Posted by AllThisMeat

It's not funny, but reinforces your point. People respond to kindness and actions more than they care about looks.
If you treat someone nicely and show some care in how you communicate, By actually using words, instead of," hw bg r u?"
People will respond better. I've had some providers respond to a PM/text in such a way I have no idea what they mean and I simply won't deal with them if they have such abysmal customer service. I often tell them, if this is how you are, that you can't spend 2 minutes composing a decent text/PM, then why would I think you are going to spend an HOUR treating me well like I'm paying you ~$3/minute?

As for the OP and his avatar, why would anyone want to compare themselves to a low life like a pimp is beyond me (how about Shaft instead). Yes, I said a pimp is a low life. Even lower than a lawyer. They are abusive enslavers of women and young boys. They deal in drugs and sometimes murder. If someone had a long time avatar of their hero, and their hero was a Nazi, would a woman want to take that chance? Originally Posted by JD Barleycorn

Well, it's a joke. Relax.

Your avatar, my friend, looks like the ringleader from Eyes Wide Shut, a movie where he enslaves women for rich people and even kills one off by giving her a drug overdose.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_b-zpSnoHs

FYI- Shaft beat women and Thomas Jefferson owned slaves and grew weed. Using a likeness in this forum shouldn't be so serious.